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Ashley Day-Ping v. CHARLES T RAMEY, III

Date: 05-08-2022

Case Number: 21A-DR-2353

Judge: Cale J. Bradford

Court:

COURT OF APPEALS OF INDIANA

On appeal from The Johnson Circuit Court

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Charles Ramey, III ("Father”) and Ashley Day-Ping ("Mother”) were married

in 2014 and had their son P.R. ("Child”) in November of that year. In 2016,

Mother petitioned for dissolution of the marriage, and, as part of a settlement

agreement, the parties agreed that Mother would have sole legal and physical

custody of Child with Father's visitation phasing in over time.

[2] Beginning early in 2017, Mother and Father beb>gan accusing each other of

suspected abuse of Child. At one point, Child was temporarily removed from

Mother's care, and, at another point, Father's visitation was temporarily

suspended. In August of 2019, Mother petitioned the trial court to order that

Father's visitation be supervised, which motion the trial court granted. Mother,

however, failed to complete the intake process at the visitation facility, and

Father had no visitation with Child from November of 2019 to August of 2020,

when the trial court found Mother to be willfully in contempt of court and

ordered that she serve thirty days in jail if she did not allow visitation to

resume.

[3] Meanwhile, Father had moved to modify custody in June of 2020, and, in

February of 2021, the trial court granted the motion, awarding Father sole legal

and primary physical custody of Child. Mother appealed, and, in August of

2021, we reversed the judgment of the trial court and remanded with

instructions to reconsider the evidence. In October of 2021, the trial court again

awarded Father sole legal and primary physical custody of Child and $9000.00

of attorney's fees on remand. Mother contends that the trial court abused its

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discretion in awarding sole legal and primary physical custody of Child to

Father and in awarding Father attorney's fees. Because we disagree with

Mother's contentions, we affirm.

Facts and Procedural History

[4] Most of the underlying facts of this case were related in our opinion in Day-Ping

v. Ramey, 175 N.E.3d 844 (Ind. Ct. App. 2021), trans. denied ("Day-Ping I”),

which was handed down on August 20, 2021:

[2] Mother and Father were married April 25, 2014. Child was

born November 13, 2014. Mother filed for dissolution on July

18, 2016. On September 28, 2016, the Department of Child

Services ("DCS”) received a report that Mother was neglecting

Child by allowing him to wander around Mother's hair salon and

play with a bottle of hair dye. DCS investigated and found the

report to be unsubstantiated. On January 17, 2017, the trial court

accepted the parties' settlement agreement and granted

dissolution of the marriage. As it pertained to Child's custody,

the parties' settlement agreement provided, in relevant part:

The parties agree that [Mother] shall have sole legal and

physical custody of [Child]. [Father] shall have parenting

time the week of January 16, 2017 for two hours on

Tuesday from 5:30 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. and two hours on

Saturday from 12:00 noon to 2:00 p.m. Thereafter,

[Father] shall have parenting time for two hours on

Tuesday from 5:30 p.m. to 7:30 p.m. and six hours on

Saturday from 12:00 noon to 6:00 p.m. for a period of six

weeks ("The Phase-in Period”). Thereafter, [Father] shall

have parenting time in accordance with Indiana Parenting

Guidelines, including but not limited to the holiday

schedule and ancillary provisions, with the exception that

[Father's] overnights with [Child] shall not commence

until [Child's] fourth birth date. The Indiana Parenting

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Guidelines, unless otherwise deviated from herein, are

adopted in entirely [sic] by the parties. If [Father] does not

exercise his parenting time, the schedule shall not progress.

However, if [Mother] prevents [Father] from exercising his

parenting time as set out herein, the schedule shall

progress. During the Phase-in Period, [Father] shall

provide direct eyesight supervision and care for [Child]

during his parenting time and may not delegate this task to

anyone else. [Father] shall not consume alcohol during

his parenting time. [Father] shall not exercise his

parenting time in any location where anyone present is

engaging in illegal activity. [Father] shall not have

unrelated third parties present during his parenting time.

[Father] shall provide all transportation for his parenting

time, which must comply with all legal requirements,

including proper child restraints.

The parties also agreed Father would pay Mother $119 per week

in child support.

[3] On July 27, 2017, Mother reported to DCS that Father had

physically abused her and Child on multiple occasions in the

past. On the same date, Mother reported to DCS that Child had

returned from Father's care with injuries to his genitals. On

August 5, 2017, Mother reported to DCS that she suspected

Father had molested Child based on alleged injuries in Child's

genital area. On August 6, 2017, Mother contacted DCS to

report additional injuries in Child's genital area that she had

discovered after Father's parenting time the previous day. On

August 21, 2017, Mother contacted DCS to again report that

Child returned from Father's care with injuries to his genital

area. On August 28, 2017, DCS received a report that Mother

was abusing Child based on a blister found in his genital area that

was allegedly not present during Father's last exercise of

parenting time. Following that report, DCS removed Child from

Mother's care on an emergency basis and placed him with

Father.

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[4] DCS filed a petition alleging Child was a Child in Need of

Services ("CHINS”) based on Mother's neglect. The juvenile

court held fact finding hearings on October 3 and 7, 2017. It

ultimately denied the CHINS petition and ordered Child

returned to Mother's care. Subsequently, Mother filed an action

in federal court pursuant to 42 U.S.C. §1983 claiming the two

DCS family case managers who investigated the CHINS

allegations against her violated her civil rights. The claim settled

out of court and Mother received a settlement in her favor for

$988,000.00.

[5] From November 2017 through August 20, 2019, the parties

filed numerous petitions and reports related to parenting time

that are not relevant to the matter before us. On August 20,

2019, Mother filed a petition requesting modification of Father's

parenting time and asked that Father's parenting time be

supervised because Child was "very resistant” to going with

Father when dropped off for Father's parenting time and Mother

"opine[d] that [Child's] resistance to his Father is due to things

that are said and done to [Child] during [Father's] parenting

time.” On December 11, 2019, the trial court held a hearing on

Mother's petition to modify Father's parenting time. On

December 14, 2019, Father filed a motion to, in relevant part,

modify custody, parenting time, and child support.

[6] On December 26, 2019, the trial court ordered Father's

parenting time, which consisted of two midweek visits lasting

two hours each and one four-hour visit on alternating weekends,

supervised by Youth Connections. The trial court ordered

Mother to "leave the visitation site, including the building and

parking lot, after she drops off [Child]. Mother shall not return

to the visitation site until the end of Father's parenting time.”

Further, the trial court ordered Mother to ensure Child does not

"wear any smart watch or similar device to Father's parenting

time or during Father's parenting time.” The order also required

Mother, Father, and Child to submit to mental health and

custody evaluations conducted by Dr. Linda McIntire.

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[7] On January 10, 2020, Father filed a motion to modify the

parenting time supervisor because Youth Connections was

"unable to accommodate the requested visitation schedule.”

Father asked the court to change the parenting time supervisor to

Mending Fences and requested that "the court order the parties

[to] contact Mending Fences within 24 hours to schedule intake

and complete their intake within 2 business days.” On January

24, 2020, the trial court granted Father's request and changed the

parenting time supervisor from Youth Connections to Mending

Fences. The trial court ordered Mother and Father "to contact

Mending Fences within 24 hours to schedule their intake and

complete said intake within 2 business days.” Mother never

completed the intake with Mending Fences "for reasons that

were disputed including the effects of the pandemic that started a

few weeks later.”

[8] On June 23, 2020, Father filed a motion to hold Mother in

contempt, alleging, in relevant part:

3. [Mother] to date has failed to complete the intake per

the order.

4. [Mother] changed her phone number on or about

February 21, 2020. Mending Fences contacted [Mother's]

counsel requesting [Mother] setup her intake.

5. [Mother] called Mending Fences with her new

telephone number on February 26, 2020. [Mother's]

intake was scheduled for March 4, 2020. [Mother] arrived

at her intake with her husband. [Mother] was previously

advised via telephone that third parties were not permitted

to attend the intake.

6. [Mother] refused to sign the intake form and the intake

was rescheduled for March 16, 2020.

7. Mending Fences has reached out to [Mother] several

times and [Mother] still has not scheduled her intake.

8. At this point, Mending Fences is doubtful that

visitations can occur in its facility.

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9. [Father] has not had parenting time with [Child] since

November 12, 2019.

On the same day, Father filed a motion to modify parenting time

and a request for an expedited hearing.

[9] The trial court held hearings on Father's contempt motion on

July 29 and August 3, 2020. On August 4, 2020, the trial court

entered an order finding, in relevant part:

1. In the January 24, 2020 Order, both parties were

ordered to: "... to contact Mending Fences within 24

hours to schedule their intake and complete said intake

within 2 business days”. [sic]

2. As of the August 3, 2020 hearing, [Mother] has still not

completed the intake process. The service provider

reported to the Court that they had "never had a case like

this before”. [sic] Further, they had wasted so much time

and effort without even completing the intake process, that

they would no longer be willing to accept the case for

supervision.

3. Mother's obstinance effectively eliminated this service

provider as a means to accommodate Father's courtordered opportunity to visit with [Child].

4. [Mother] has engaged in a pattern of behavior clearly

intended to frustrate this Court's Order, as well as the

Court's efforts to reinitiate parenting time between Child

and [Father].

5. Father has had no parenting time with [Child] since

November 2019.

6. The Court, therefore, finds that [Mother] is in willful

contempt of this Court's order.

7. The Court notes that previously, on June 6, 2017,

[Mother] was strongly admonished by Judge Marla Clark

that "... The Court reminds Mother that it expects Father's

parenting time to take place as ordered and that she faces

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potentially serious sanctions for denying parenting time”.

[sic]

8. Father is no closer today to having regular (or any)

parenting time with his son than he was in June of 2017.

9. [Mother] is hereby sentenced to serve thirty (30) actual

days in the Johnson County Jail for her contempt.

10. The Court stays imposition of the sentence and will

allow [Mother] the opportunity to purge her contempt.

[Mother] may purge her contempt by henceforth abiding

by the strict terms of this Court's parenting time order,

without exception, excuse or subversion.

The trial court further ordered Father to have parenting time

pursuant to the Indiana Parenting Time Guidelines, with Mother

arranging transportation to and from Father's residence for the

first ninety days. The trial court also ordered Mother to pay

$1,000.00 of Father's attorney's fees and ordered Mother to

refrain from sending Child to Father's house with a "'smart

watch' or any other GPS device capable of tracking [Child]

during Father's parenting time.”

[10] On December 1, 2020, Dr. Linda McIntire submitted her

custody evaluation to the trial court. On January 6, 2021,

Mother made a motion for specific findings by the court pursuant

to Indiana Trial Rule 52. On January 12 and January 15, 2021,

the trial court heard evidence on Father's motion for

modification of custody. On February 15, 2021, the trial court

issued its order, which transferred sole legal and primary physical

custody of Child from Mother to Father; ordered Mother to pay

$137 in child support per week; ordered Mother to pay $9,000.00

of Father's attorney's fees; and appointed Father's girlfriend,

Jordan McHenry ("Girlfriend”), as Child's temporary custodian

in the event of Father's death.

Id. at 847–50 (footnotes and record citations omitted; all bracketed material in

original). In Day-Ping I, we took judicial notice of a complaint Mother had filed

in Johnson Superior Court under cause number 41D01-1908-CT-122 ("Cause

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No. CT-122”) against Father and Girlfriend for malicious prosecution and

intentional infliction of emotional distress. Day-Ping I, 175 N.E.3d at 852. The

lawsuit was based on Father and Girlfriend's August 28, 2017, report to DCS of

their suspicions that Mother had been abusing Child, after which DCS removed

Child from Mother's care on an emergency basis and placed him with Father

for forty-four days. That civil case, which was resolved in June of 2021, or

approximately four months after the custody order at issue in Day-Ping I,

resulted in a jury awarding $100,750.00 each from Father and Girlfriend to

Mother. Id.

[5] We reversed the award of sole legal and primary physical custody of Child to

Father and remanded with the following instructions:

We reverse the trial court's decision and remand for

reconsideration of the evidence based on the entirety of the

circumstances concerning these parties. Absent exigent

circumstances, the court shall order the parties to revert to the

terms of the original Settlement Agreement, entered into on

January 16, 2017, and approved by the court on January 17,

2017, upon receipt of this opinion. This reversion shall remain in

effect pending the outcome of a new hearing, which shall be

conducted within thirty days from the date of this opinion.

Id. at 854–55.

[6] On September 14, 2021, the trial court held a hearing, at which it heard

argument but no additional evidence, in accordance with Day-Ping I. On

October 25, 2021, the trial court issued its custody order on remand, which

provides, in relevant part, as follows:

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10. Subsequent to [Child]'s return to Mother's custody,

Father continued to have difficulty obtaining his parenting time.

11. The exchanges of [Child] for parenting time became

difficult and Father was not receiving his parenting time.

12. In August 2019, Mother sought to modify Father's

parenting time to supervised parenting time.

13. On December 11, 2019, this Court heard Mother's

allegations against Father. Due to the nature of Mother's

allegations against Father, the length of time since Father had

received visitation, and in an effort to get some visitation going

between father and son, the Court granted a temporary parenting

time order that restricted Father's parenting time to supervised

parenting time. Father's parenting time, initially, was to be

supervised through Youth Connections.

14. At the December 11, 2019 hearing, this Court, on its

own motion, ordered the parties and the minor child to submit to

a mental health evaluation conducted by Dr. Linda McIntire.

15. This Court also, on its own motion, ordered Dr.

Linda McIntire to conduct a custody evaluation regarding

[Child].

16. Parenting Time never occurred at Youth

Connections because they were not able to accommodate

parenting time as ordered by the Court.

17. On January 24, 2020, the Court ordered that

Mending Fences facilitate Father's supervised parenting time.

The parties were ordered to contact Mending Fences within 24

hours to schedule their intake and complete said intake within

two (2) business days. The Order of the Court was placed on the

CCS on January 29, 2020 and sent to the parties' counsel on

January 30, 2020.

18. Father contacted Mending Fences on January 30,

2020 and completed his intake on January 31, 2020.

19. Mother did not first contact Mending Fences until

February 21, 2020.

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20. Ultimately, Mother never completed her intake with

Mending Fences.

21. Kelli Young at Mending Fences attempted several

times to facilitate the completion of Mother's intake, but Mother

provided multiple and varying excuses for her failure to comply

with the Court's order. Mending Fences personnel testified they

had "never had a case like this before”. Further, that they had

wasted so much time and effort without even completing the

intake process that they would no longer be willing to accept

supervision of the case.

22. Mother's testimony regarding her attempts to

complete her intake and reasons for not completing the intake

was not credible.

23. Mother engaged in a pattern of behavior clearly

intended to frustrate this Court's Order, as well as the Court's

efforts to reinitiate parenting time between [Child] and Father.

24. As a result of Mother's obdurate conduct, Father's

supervised parenting time at Mending Fences never commenced

and Mending Fences was lost as [a] resource.

25. Father had no parenting time with [Child] from

November 2019 to August 2020.

26. Mother was found to be in willful contempt of the

Court's January 24, 2020 Order. The Court noted:

"Petitioner/Wife has engaged in a pattern of behavior clearly

intended to frustrate this Court's order, as well as the Court's

efforts to reinitiate parenting time between [Child] and his father.

Father is no closer today to having regular (or any) parenting

time with his son than he was in June of 2017.”

27. Previously, in 2017, Mother had been strongly

admonished by Judge Marla Clark that: "... The Court reminds

Mother that it expects Father's parenting time to take place as

ordered and that she faces potentially serious sanctions for

denying parenting time”.

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28. Father was ordered to receive parenting time

pursuant the Indiana Parenting Time Guidelines with his first

weekend parenting time to commence on Friday, August 14,

2020.

29. When [Child] was delivered for his first parenting

time with Father, he arrived with a whistle and informed Father

that Mother said [Child] needed the whistle to protect himself

and that [Child] should blow the whistle in case he needed help.

This, after the Court had previously ordered that the (five-yearold) child not be sent for visitation wearing a "smart watch” or

other GPS device capable of tracking [Child] during Father's

parenting time, as he had been before.

30. Mother's pattern of conduct, in effect, conveyed to

[Child] the message that he was in danger from his own Father.

Alternatively, [Child] became an instrumentality of Mother's

own underlying mental/emotional health issues or her efforts to

undermine the father-son relationship.

31. The parties participated in an independent courtordered custody evaluation conducted by Dr. Linda McIntire.

The evaluation included mental health evaluations.

32. At the conclusion of the custody evaluation, Dr.

McIntire's report and recommendations were filed with the

Court.

33. Dr. McIntire strongly recommends that Father be

granted full legal custody and primary physical custody. Further,

that "this change of custody should happen sooner, rather than

later”.

34. This recommendation is based upon several factors,

including but not limited to:

a. [Child's] speech impairment that has gone

unaddressed by Mother who has sole legal custody;

b. Mother's psychological issues and medical

instability;

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c. Mother's alienating behavior of [Child] towards

Father;

d. Mother's significant elevation of paranoia and

overwhelming belief that she is under attack;

e. Mother's specific coaching of [Child] to make

allegations against Father;

f. Mother's undermining of Father and [Child]'s

relationship;

g. Father's parenting style more appropriately

addresses [Child]'s behavior than Mother's parenting style;

h. [Child] has enjoyed a good relationship with Father;

i. [Child] has a good relationship with Father's

fiancé[e], Jordan McHenry;

j. [Child] has a good relationship with his half-sister[];

k. Father addressed [Child]'s speech problems when

[Child] was placed with Father;

l. Father would facilitate a positive relationship

between [Child] and Mother.

m. The harms [Child] is incurring in Mother's care

which places him at greater risk for poor outcomes.

35. From 2017 to present, multiple individuals have

observed "paranoid” behavior by Mother, including but not

limited to, Dr. McIntire, Lee Heap (CASA) [("CASA Heap”)],

and [Mother's expert] Dr. [Randall] Krupsaw.

36. Mother's expert, Dr. Jenuwine, raised questions

regarding Dr. McIntire's custody evaluation and her procedure

for the same. Dr. Jenuwine did not personally examine or

evaluate any of the parties involved.

37. The Court finds that Dr. Jenuwine's assessment was

based in part, if not entirely, on documents provided by Mother's

counsel and not based on the documents used by Dr. McIntire to

complete her custody evaluation. Dr. Jenuwine could not

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confirm that he actually received or reviewed the documents used

by Dr. McIntire, other than the raw data from the psychological

testing.

38. Dr. Jenuwine testified that Mother described that

Dr. McIntire performed an ink blot (Rorschach) test on her as

part of her evaluation. Dr. McIntire's report was criticized by

Dr. Jenuwine for the use of such a test for purposes of a custody

evaluation and for failing to reference it in her report.

39. On rebuttal, Dr. McIntire testified that not only did

she not administer a Rorschach test to Mother, but that she has

never administered one as part of a custody evaluation.

40. These statements by Mother call into question

Mother's credibility, her mental status, and/or her ability to

accurately recall and relate events.

41. Mother presented a second expert witness, Dr.

Randall Krupsaw. Dr. Krupsaw had prepared a previous report

in connection with other litigation. He also prepared a letter or

report in connection with this proceeding. Dr. Krupsaw, did not

conduct his own custody evaluation. He did not interview or

evaluate Father. Dr. Krupsaw's second report relied upon

documents and information provided by Mother or her counsel.

42. Dr. Krupsaw, among other things, opined that Dr.

McIntire's evaluation was consistent with current basic

professional practice guidelines/standards.

43. Dr. Krupsaw agreed that there are many unknowns

around the harm that [Child] experienced surrounding the

removal by the Department of Child Services.

44. Dr. Krupsaw was unable to state with certainty that

any harm came to [Child] due to the removal by DCS or

parenting time with Father.

45. As between the report and findings of the Court's

appointed evaluator, Dr. Linda McIntire, and those of Mother's

experts, Dr. Jenuwine and Dr. Krupsaw, the Court finds Dr.

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McIntire's findings to be the more compelling, reasonable and

consistent with the evidence.

46. Mother's unaddressed mental health issues have

impacted [Child] negatively.

47. [CASA Heap] reviewed Dr. McIntire's report and

stated it was reflective of her experience with the parties.

48. [CASA] Heap is in agreement with the

recommendations of Dr. McIntire, noting that [Child]'s situation

had gotten worse since her report to the Court in April 2018.

49. [CASA] Heap finds Father to be a kind, stable

parent whose interactions with [Child] are loving.

50. Parenting time exchanges occur without issue when

Mother is not involved in the exchanges.

51. Mother provided conflicting recitations of events to

Dr. McIntire.

52. Mother provided conflicting recitations of events to

[CASA Heap].

53. Mother was not credible during her testimony

before this Court.

54. Mother has only recently commenced counseling

for co-parenting and high conflict resolution.

55. As of the hearing, Mother had not engaged in the

mental health counseling recommended by her medical providers

and Dr. McIntire.

56. In short, the Court's own observations of Mother's

demeanor and presentation, as well as her history of behavior

throughout this case, are consistent with the conclusions of Dr.

McIntire as to Mother's mental and emotional state.

57. Father's income is established at $1,280.00 gross per

week.

58. Mother's income is imputed at $787.00 gross per

week.

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59. Both Father and Mother have a subsequent born

child.

60. Father carries the health insurance for [Child] and

the cost associated with said insurance is $123.69 per week.

61. Father incurred attorney fees in the amount of

$18,587.50.

62. Mother incurred attorney fees (Ron Waicukauski

only) and expenses in the amount of $72,906.95. Mother's

documented fee request does not reflect the additional attorney

fees incurred for counsel Linda Meier, Mark McNeely, and

Grace Dillow.

63. Neither party asked for reallocation of the fees paid

to Dr McIntire. In addition to the above prior Findings, after

remand and further hearing, the Court now makes the following

additional FINDINGS:

64. The Court of Appeals took judicial notice of the

following facts, which facts this Court, therefore, adopts: During

the pendency of this proceeding, Mother filed a complaint in the

Johnson Superior Court against Father and Girlfriend for

malicious prosecution and intentional infliction of emotional

distress. Subsequent to the judgment (this Court's Order on

Petition to Modify Custody and Related Issues), the Johnson

Superior Court held a five-day trial on Mother's complaint

against Father and Girlfriend[.] [...] The jury in that case

awarded Mother $90,750.00 each from Father and Girlfriend in

compensatory damages, and $10,000.00 each from Father and

Girlfriend in punitive damages. (Order, 41D01-1908-CT-122,

June 19, 2021.)

65. As noted, the trial court was not aware, and could

not have been aware, of the civil judgment noted above, as it had

not yet happened as of the date of the custody modification

hearing herein. Little evidence was referenced as to this matter

by the parties.

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66. Petitioner/Father notes that, notwithstanding Ind.

Evidence Rule 201(e), he was not given an opportunity to be

heard prior to the Court taking Judicial Notice of subsequent

facts.

67. Each of the parties have been the subject of

unsubstantiated DCS reports.

68. [Child], is a male child. He is now six (6) years old,

four (4) years older than at the time of the original decree and

settlement agreement.

69. Mother wishes to retain custody of [Child].

70. Father wishes that he be awarded legal and physical

custody of [Child]. His wishes have changed since the prior

settlement agreement.

71. The child neither testified, nor was he interviewed

in camera.

72. The child expressed a desire to remain with Mother

during Dr. McIntire's interview and custody evaluation.

73. Given [Child]'s tender age, as well as the pressures

exerted upon him, the Court gives little weight to [Child]'s wish

as expressed to Dr. McIntire.

74. The child has a positive and loving relationship with

[Father] and [Father]'s fiancé[e]. This, despite periods in the past

where Father's parenting was interrupted and actively interfered

with by [Mother]. [Child] is not fearful of his father.

75. [Child] and Mother are bonded and love each other.

Their interaction and interrelationship, however, is not strictly a

healthy one from a mental and emotional standpoint.

76. Mother and [Child] are enmeshed to a disturbing

degree. Their interaction and interrelationship negatively

impacts [Child]'s mental and emotion[al] health and well-being.

77. Mother has exhibited fear-inducing behaviors

toward [Child]. She has actively attempted to alienate [Child]

from his father, to the point where she has been admonished by

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the Court and ultimately held in contempt of court for interfering

with court ordered parenting time.

78. The custody evaluation characterized Mother's

behavior as "alienating”, which the other evidence supports.

79. [Child] has siblings in both his mother's and his

father's home. At his father's, [Child] has a strong resilient

relationship with his older sister[.] He also has a baby sister,

toward whom he displays "sweet affection”. At his mother's

home [Child] has a younger half-brother [] with whom he is also

strongly bonded. [Child] is protective of his little brother and, in

turn, [his younger half-brother] admires [Child]. [Child] enjoys

spending time with all his siblings and has positive relationships

with all his siblings.

80. Based upon past history, further interruption of

Father's parenting time with [Child] will interfere with [Child]'s

relationship with his siblings in his father's home.

81. A change of custody from Mother's home would

not significantly harm [Child]'s relationship with his half-sibling

there. This conclusion is supported by Dr. McIntire's custody

evaluation.

82. The child has positive relationships with his

stepfather.

83. [Child] has positive relationships with his extended

family on both sides.

84. The child is well adjusted in each parent's home.

85. The child was well adjusted in school generally,

however, struggles with getting along with other students.

[Child]'s grades for the first semester at Trader's Point indicate

that he was meeting or exceeding grade level. The COVID

pandemic caused the need for distance learning since.

86. [Child] was, as of the hearing, relatively new to his

community. With his young age and the ongoing COVID

conditions, his interactions in the community were limited.

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87. Mother has a history of mental health issues and

instability. Testing reveals her to have significant levels of

paranoia. Dr. Jenuwine offers that this is possibly "situational in

nature”. Previously, she was diagnosed with ADHD,

depression, and panic attacks. She has consistently neglected or

refused to genuinely engage in mental health treatment in the

past.

88. Mother's mental health issues are serious. They

have impacted [Child] negatively. [...] Dr. McIntire[] strongly

opines that Mother's condition places [Child] at serious risk.

89. [Child] has a speech impediment that has gone

untreated in Mother's care. The speech impediment negatively

affects [Child]'s healthy development and also interferes with his

social interactions with other children and fellow students.

90. Father did provide speech therapy for [Child] when

[Child] was placed with him in 2017. If custody were to change

[Child] would attend Cloverdale Elementary School. The school

has a licensed speech pathologist. The school also has behavioral

therapy available through the Cummings Program.

91. Mother alleges domestic violence. Father denies

domestic violence.

92. Dr. McIntire notes: that MMPI tests can be

indicative of abuse. In this case, there is no evidence of domestic

abuse, but it cannot be ruled out. Dr. McIntire points out that

Mother indicated to [a Riley Hospital Social Worker] that Father

had been arrested for abusing her while pregnant. This was

found to be untrue. Mother indicated Father had been

substantiated on physical abuse by DCS. This was found to be

untrue. Mother indicated to her that Father had been arrested for

battery with injury on a child, also found to be untrue.

93. Dr. McIntire did not utilize any other psychological

tests to assess for domestic violence. Father did not meet the

criteria for any such assessment. Any such test would have been

professionally inappropriate because Father has never been

adjudicated for any offense involving violence.

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94. In performing her custody evaluation Dr. McIntire

utilized appropriate validity scales calculated to validate the

credibility of information provided by the subjects, as well as

attempts to present themselves in a more favorable light, or to

otherwise skew tests results.

95. Mother and Father are each physically healthy.

96. Mother has been unwilling to communicate and

cooperate with Father regarding parenting matters. Father

indicates his ability and willingness to do so.

97. Father is a fit and proper person to have physical

and legal custody.

98. Dr. Jenuwine (Mother's expert) testified that he

only spoke to Mother in order to coordinate payment of his fees.

Nevertheless, in direct contradiction, Dr. Jenuwine later testified

that he spoke to Mother about Dr. McIntire (the court appointed

custody evaluator) conducting a Rorschach test.

99. Dr. Jenuwine put great stock in the impropriety of

the use of a Rorschach test in the context of Dr. McIntire's

custody evaluation and in his criticism of Dr. McIntire's

conclusions.

100. Dr. McIntire, on rebuttal, testified that no reference

to a Rorschach test is contained in her lengthy report, because no

such test was, in fact, administered.

101. Dr. Jenuwine criticized Dr. McIntire's methodology

in not conducting a joint session with both Mother and Father.

However, both Dr. McIntire and Dr. Krupsaw (Mother's second

expert) testified joint sessions would not be appropriate where

domestic violence is alleged.

102. As the result of not being able to conduct a joint

session with the parents, Dr. McIntire met with them separately.

While Dr. McIntire met with [Father] first, [Mother] had

provided her with a substantial amount of information prior to

that meeting. Dr. McIntire then met with Mother. Dr. McIntire

testified that with regard to any effect of "primacy bias”: " ...

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while I agree with that literature, I'll point out that [Mother] had

the first word in this evaluation”.

103. The effects of "primacy” versus "recency” were

presumably considered by Dr. McIntire in reaching her

professional conclusions. She testified as to her familiarity with

the concept and what, if any, affect it had on her outcomes.

Someone had to be interviewed first and someone second. This

process did not substantially undermine the process or the

evaluator's conclusions. Dr. Jenuwine acknowledged that he

could not say with certainty that Dr. McIntire's meeting with

Father first had any impact on her report.

104. The Court weighs the testimony of experts as it does

any other witness. When faced with competing experts, the

Court must decide whether their testimony can be reconciled, if

not, which it will choose to believe or disbelieve. The Court

considers, among other things, the source of the witness's

information, any bias, prejudice, or interest, as well as their

manner of testifying.

105. As to the experts who testified in this case:

a. Dr. McIntire was appointed by the court to conduct

an independent custody evaluation.

b. Drs. Jenuwine and Krupsaw were retained and paid

by Mother.

c. Dr. McIntire personally interviewed all interested

parties and conducted relevant testing.

d. Neither Dr. Jenuwine, nor Dr. Krupsaw met with

any of the interested parties in connection with this matter.

e. Dr. McIntire testified in a straightforward

professional manner. On being recalled, she effectively

refuted any and all criticisms and misrepresentations of her

work.

f. Dr. Krupsaw, in the end, did not substantially refute

Dr. McIntire's findings. Among other things, he

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acknowledged Dr. McIntire's work to be consistent with

current basic professional practice guidelines and standards.

g. Dr. Krupsaw also testified that he himself did not

follow the practice of conducting joint sessions with the

parties when conducting custody evaluation. He preferred a

"leapfrog” kind of style. This being one of the methodologies

criticized by Mother's other expert, Dr. Jenuwine because of

the "primacy'' effect.

h. Dr. Jenuwine testified in a manner[] which the

Court found to be evasive, condescending, and unconvincing.

106. The award of attorney fees to Father is reasonable,

given the nature of the litigation, the conduct of the parties,

Mother's unreasonable attempts to limit Father's parenting time,

the shear [sic] volume of the pleadings in the matter, and the

number and length of the hearings to date. The $9,000.00

awarded represents less than 1/8 of the amount paid by Mother

to only one of her four attorneys, which strikes the Court as a fair

measure of reasonableness.

107. Mother's 2019 tax return reflects her family gross

income to be $122,860.00. While the Court does not consider

her spouse's income in determining the award of attorney fees,

the Court does consider that her husband supports her and that

Mother is voluntarily unemployed. Petitioner previously

operated her own business, which she later sold. She is capable of

gainful employment. Her financial circumstances simply allow

her not to have to work.

CONCLUSIONS AND JUDGMENT

[....]

The Court has thoroughly reviewed the evidence relating

to allegations of domestic violence between the parties. The

Court considers such evidence, it's [sic] potential impact on

[Child], as well as any effect on the validity of the custody

evaluation performed.

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The Court has thoroughly reweighed all the evidence in

this matter, including the veracity of the witnesses, in light of all

the facts and circumstances, including the civil judgment entered

in favor of Petitioner/Mother and against Respondent/Father

and his then fiancé[e], subsequent to this Court's original custody

modification order.

The Court has thoroughly reweighed the methodologies,

conclusions, and opinions of the expert witnesses considering the

behavior of all the parties in this matter and specifically those of

the Father and Girlfriend in the independent lawsuit and

judgment.

The Court does find the independent finder of fact's

Judgment in [Cause No. CT-122] informative as to the matters

before this Court.

The Court does not believe that the jury's conclusion in

that independent matter mandates a particular result in this case.

Rather, it is a factor to be considered, in light of all the evidence.

Mother asks the Court to take judicial notice of other

matters, including attachments to subsequent pleadings, emails,

and her therapy records for treatment subsequent to this Court's

child custody modification order. Those matters were submitted

to the Court outside of any hearing. They have not been

subjected to cross examination by the opposing party. The

opposing party is entitled to be heard prior to the trial court

taking judicial notice of any fact. Ind. Evid Rule 201 (e).

Moreover, the Indiana Court of Appeals has specifically directed

that this court reconsider the evidence in this matter and that

''No new evidence shall be introduced at the hearing, only

argument regarding the current evidence before the trial court for

reconsideration in accordance with the analysis in this Court's

opinion.” It would be fundamentally unfair to consider only

subsequent evidence or judicially noticed facts favorable to one

party without the opposing party being allowed the same

opportunity or at least the occasion for cross examination.

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Dr. McIntire relied extensively on her own interviews with

the relevant parties, her personal observations, and standardized

psychological testing performed, as well as medical and mental

health records received from previous providers. Her decision

not to consider "numerous filings, work product/documents and

depositions” provided directly by one parties' [sic] attorney

appears consistent with her function, which was to provide an

independent unbiased evaluation.

While the Court gives due consideration to the testimony

of each of the expert witnesses, as it does with all witnesses, the

Court's determination in this matter reflects the Court's

independent determination, based upon all the evidence.

The Court gives significant weight to the testimony of

[CASA Heap].

The Court concludes there has [been] substantial and

continuing change in circumstance warranting a modification of

the current custody order including, but not limited to, the

following:

1. Mother's ongoing mental health issues and instability,

2. Mother's refusal to address the same,

3. The impact of Mother's unaddressed mental health issues

on [Child],

4. Mother's fear inducing behavior toward [Child],

5. Mother's alienating behaviors toward Father,

6. Mother's pattern of conduct frustrating Father's parenting

time,

7. The effect of deprivation of quality parenting time with

both parents on [Child],

8. Father is more likely to address [Child]'s need for

treatment of his speech impediment, as well as his

mental/emotion health,

9. Father will facilitate a positive relationship with Mother.

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Modification of custody and parenting time are in the best

interest of [Child].

The Court specifically notes that this modification of

custody and parenting time is not intended to be punitive in

nature, or as a sanction, rather it is genuinely in [Child]'s best

interest.

Father is hereby granted sole legal and primary physical

custody of [Child], effective immediately.

Mother is hereby awarded parenting time according to the

age-appropriate Indiana Parenting Time Guidelines (as

amended).

Transportation of [Child] shall continue to be provided by

a responsible third-party for Mother.

Mother is not to be present during any parenting time

exchanges or during the transportation period.

The parties shall sign up for Our Family Wizard within ten

(10) days from the date of this Order. The parties shall use this

platform for all communication except emergency

communication.

Parenting Time exchanges shall continue to take place at

the TA Travel Center at I-70 and S.R. 39.

The parties shall cease any and all communication

regarding court proceedings and this matter with [Child]. The

parties shall not allow any third party to discuss these matters

with [Child].

The parties shall encourage [Child] to have a positive

relationship with both parents and their household members.

[....]

Father's request for attorney fees is granted. Mother shall

pay reasonable attorney fees in the amount of $9,000.00 to

Attorney Heather George Myers within sixty (60) days from the

date of this Order.

Mother's request for attorney fees and expenses denied.

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Order pp. 3–22

[7] On October 25, 2021, Mother filed her notice of appeal and filed an emergency

motion to stay the trial court's order pending appeal the next day, which we

granted the day after that. We denied Father's motion to reconsider the stay on

November 24, 2021. Meanwhile, on October 4, 2021, Father had petitioned for

transfer in Day-Ping I, which petition the Indiana Supreme Court denied on

January 11, 2022. See Day-Ping v. Ramey, 180 N.E.3d 934 (table).

Discussion and Decision

I. Sole Legal and Primary Physical Custody

[8] Mother contends that the trial court abused its discretion in awarding Father

sole legal and primary physical custody of Child. Indiana Code section 31-17-

2-8 provides as follows:

The court shall determine custody and enter a custody order in

accordance with the best interests of the child. In determining

the best interests of the child, there is no presumption favoring

either parent. The court shall consider all relevant factors,

including the following:

(1) The age and sex of the child.

(2) The wishes of the child's parent or parents.

(3) The wishes of the child, with more consideration given to

the child's wishes if the child is at least fourteen (14) years of

age.

(4) The interaction and interrelationship of the child with:

(A) the child's parent or parents;

(B) the child's sibling; and

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(C) any other person who may significantly affect the

child's best interests.

(5) The child's adjustment to the child's:

(A) home;

(B) school; and

(C) community.

(6) The mental and physical health of all individuals involved.

(7) Evidence of a pattern of domestic or family violence by

either parent.

(8) Evidence that the child has been cared for by a de facto

custodian, and if the evidence is sufficient, the court shall

consider the factors described in section 8.5(b) of this chapter.

(9) A designation in a power of attorney of:

(A) the child's parent; or

(B) a person found to be a de facto custodian of the child.

[9] In cases where a modification of custody is sought, the following also applies:

(a) The court may not modify a child custody order unless:

(1) the modification is in the best interests of the child; and

(2) there is a substantial change in one (1) or more of the

factors that the court may consider under section 8 [...] of this

chapter.

(b) In making its determination, the court shall consider the

factors listed under section 8 of this chapter.

(c) The court shall not hear evidence on a matter occurring before

the last custody proceeding between the parties unless the matter

relates to a change in the factors relating to the best interests of

the child as described by section 8 [...] of this chapter.

Ind. Code § 31-17-2-21.

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[10] "A change in circumstances must be judged in the context of the whole

environment, and the effect on the child is what renders a change substantial or

inconsequential.” In re Marriage of Sutton, 16 N.E.3d 481, 485 (Ind. Ct. App.

2014). While the trial court must consider all the factors listed in Ind. Code

section 31-17-2-8, it only has to find one substantial change in the factors to

warrant a modification of custody. Kanach v. Rogers, 742 N.E.2d 987, 989 (Ind.

Ct. App. 2001). In general, a custody modification should not be used to

punish a parent's noncompliance with a custody order. Montgomery v.

Montgomery, 59 N.E.3d 343, 350 (Ind. Ct. App. 2016), trans. denied. "However,

'[i]f one parent can demonstrate that the other has committed misconduct so

egregious that it places a child's mental and physical welfare at stake, the trial

court may modify the custody order.'” Id. (quoting Maddux v. Maddux, 40

N.E.3d 971, 979 (Ind. Ct. App. 2015), trans. denied).

[11] Finally,

[a] child custody determination falls within the sound discretion

of the trial court, and its determination will not be disturbed on

appeal absent a showing of abuse of discretion. In Re

Guardianship of R.B., 619 N.E.2d 952, 955 (Ind. Ct. App. 1993).

We are reluctant to reverse a trial court's determination

concerning child custody unless the determination is clearly

erroneous and contrary to the logic and effect of the evidence. Id.

We do not reweigh evidence nor reassess witness credibility, and

we consider only the evidence which supports the trial court's

decision. Wallin v. Wallin, 668 N.E.2d 259, 261 (Ind. Ct. App.

1996).

Spencer v. Spencer, 684 N.E.2d 500, 501 (Ind. Ct. App. 1997). "[A]ppellate

courts are in a poor position to look at a cold transcript of the record and

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conclude that the trial judge, who saw the witnesses, observed their demeanor,

and scrutinized their testimony as it came from the witness stand, did not

properly understand the significance of the evidence.” B.L. v. J.S., 59 N.E.3d

253, 259 (Ind. App. 2016) (citations and internal quotations omitted), trans.

denied.

A. Substantial and Continuing Change in Circumstances

[12] Mother contends that the trial court erred in concluding that there had been a

substantial and continuing change in circumstance such that a change in

custody was warranted. Mother challenges the trial court's conclusions

regarding her interference with Father's parenting time, her fear-inducing and

alienating behaviors, her mental-health, and likely future behavior of the

parents with regard to Child.

1. Parenting Time

[13] While Mother does not claim that she has no history of impeding Father's

exercise of parenting time, she argues that the trial court erred in considering it

on the basis that whatever issues may have existed have been resolved. The

evidence Mother uses to support this argument is that Father has had regular

visitation with Child since August of 2020, or since the trial court found her in

willful contempt for denying Father visitation and ordered her incarcerated if

she continued to do so. We have little hesitation in rejecting this argument. It

is worth remembering that (1) prior to the trial court's contempt finding, Father

had not had any visitation with Child for approximately nine months due to

Mother's "pattern of behavior clearly intended to frustrate” the trial court's

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parenting-time order and (2) the trial court had to threaten Mother with thirty

days of incarceration before visitation resumed. Order p. 4. Under the

circumstances, we cannot say that the trial court's reliance on Mother's pattern

of obstructive behavior as a factor justifying a change in custody is clearly

erroneous, even if she has been temporarily deterred by the threat of

incarceration.

2. Fear-Inducing and Alienating Behaviors

[14] Mother argues that the trial court erred in relying on evidence of her fearinducing and alienating behaviors. While Mother does not deny such behavior,

she argues that, even if it did occur, it should be disregarded because it has not

succeeded in actually causing Child to fear and hate Father. To support this

argument, Mother cites to Dr. McIntire's observation that Child does not

demonstrate any fear of Father, CASA Heap's observation that Child exhibits

no fear of Father or Father's family, and Father's testimony that he generally

has a good relationship with Child and that Child shows no signs of fearing

him. There is, however, also evidence of Child's frequent outbursts over the

years when leaving Mother for visitation with Father, which Mother argues

have been caused by separation anxiety.

[15] While it is not disputed that transfers from Mother to Father have greatly

distressed Child—and seems reasonable to cite separation anxiety as the

cause—it certainly does not follow that none of this has anything to do with

Mother's behavior. Dr. McIntire's report includes the following evidence

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regarding Mother's alienating behavior, which we believe is worth relating at

length:

[T]he interaction of [Mother's] persecutory ideation and

enmeshment with [Child] have resulted in a concerning pattern

of behaviors which have alienated [Child] from his father and

caused intermittent acute fear of [Father]. [Child] demonstrated

vast knowledge of Mother's allegations, dating back to prior to

his birth and his infancy which—whether true or not—he never

should have known. He has knowledge of the most recent court

hearing, including that Mother was sentenced to jail, that this

"surprised” Mother, and that the Judge "doesn't listen” to

[Mother and her husband]. He repeats claims that he is allergic

to Father's pets and that [Father] "won't let” him play soccer,

"tricks” him with toys, "is mean,” cut his hair and that he had a

cut on his eye and "couldn't talk when my mom got me” (all of

which Mother alleges occurred following [the] 2017 removal),

and that "[Father and Girlfriend] tried to hit my mom on

purpose” in a vehicle. He freely reported that his mother told

him many of these things, but also that some was revealed "in

email to my mom.” Whether [Child] actually overhead all of

these statements over the years (as Mother claimed) or was told

directly by his mother is immaterial, as she is fully responsible to

maintain an appropriate boundary with her child, rather than tell

and/or expose him to information which induces fear, reduces

his ability to feel safe, and undermines his ability to trust others,

including but not limited to his father.

Additionally, there is evidence that she made fear-inducing

statements to him about this evaluator before he had to spend

time with her in Mother's absence. These included that she is

"friends with the Judge” who is a "bad Judge” and doesn't

"listen to” the Pings, and that she is "bad Linda” who will

"trick” him. This set [Child] up for at least discomfort, if not a

traumatic experience.

Finally, [Mother] has engaged in a series of actions which

convince [Child] he is not safe without her. One example is the

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GPS/recording watch which [Child] was to wear on parenting

time. Independent of Father's allegation that [Child] was told by

[Mother] that it was to keep him safe and he was not to take it

off, Mother clearly sent it, continued insistence upon it after

being asked not to, and created a situation in which [Child] felt

fear and anger when it was taken, such that he subsequently tried

to hide the watch. It is likely that her insistence on the watch, as

well as reporting to this evaluator that one of her primary issues

with [Father] is his alleged "secrecy of where he's taking him,”

emanate from a real fear that [Father] will steal [Child], despite

lack of evidence to support this notion. This also accounts for

the Fall Break fiasco which preceded a sharp increase in [Child]'s

distress and the end of visits in fall 2019. Sadly Mother's

paranoid actions have shaped an identical fear in [Child].

Sending him recently with a whistle recapitulates this lesson.

There are multiple reports of [Mother] following [Child] in a

vehicle after he has been exchanged to Father or his

representative, and evidence that that this happened at least

twice: once when she found them on a visit in a friend's

apartment and once when, per her own admission, she and her

mother-in-law followed [Girlfriend] to her place of work, where

her mother-in-law got out of her car, approached [Girlfriend's

car], and start[ed] a verbal altercation. Again, these are

behaviors that not only upset [Child], but triangulated him into

adult conflicts and reinforced a perception that he is in danger.

Finally, [Mother]'s efforts "to have long extended good-byes”

(per Adult & Child visit logs) were addressed with her in 2017

because this emotional clinging increases [Child]'s distress about

separation. Yet even in late 2019 (after Fall Break) Mother had

[Child] in her lap in the front seat at exchanges, was cuddling

him, and made no effort to remove him from the car or her lap.

Overall, there is a pattern of alienating behaviors which not only

undermine [Child]'s relationship with [Father] but cause him

fear, distress, and increased dependence on and continued

enmeshment with his mother. While her goal is likely to reduce

[Child]'s immediate distress and is rooted in fears she truly

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experiences, over time these behaviors have an opposite, greater,

and detrimental effect. [Mother] is increasing the likelihood of

greater, more enduring stress for [Child], as well as adjustment

issues and impairment as he matures.

Ex. Vol. VII pp. 242–43. To the extent that Child suffers from separation

anxiety, the trial court was free to infer from the above that Mother's actions

are primarily—if not entirely—responsible. The trial court did not err in citing

Mother's fear-inducing and alienating behavior as supporting a change in

custody.

3. Mother's Mental Health

[16] Mother challenges the trial court's identification of her refusal to address

ongoing mental-health issues as a circumstance supporting a change of custody.

Mother claims that she is doing all that is necessary to address whatever

mental-health issues she might have, which she also seems to characterize as

overblown. This challenge is not supported by the record. As far back as

September of 2017, clinical psychologist Dr. Janine Miller found that Mother

"may present with a paranoid orientation.” Appellant's App. Vol. II p. 8. As

for Dr. McIntire, she opined in her custody evaluation that

[Mother] has a lengthy psychiatric history including multiple

diagnoses (ADHD, Depression, Panic Disorder, Generalized

Anxiety Disorder) and medicinal management of symptoms, but

she has refused referrals to therapy. This evaluation and the 2017

report additionally reveal significant levels of chronic paranoia

which, while likely characterologically based, may become more

severe under acute stress. Finally, she demonstrates themes of

somatization including but not limited to stress-related

nonepileptiform seizures.

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No professional can retroactively determine if the marital

violence Mother reports ever happened, though at least some

aspects of her claims are infeasible.

However, there is evidence that her pattern of claiming harm to

herself and [Child] since the divorce are typically exaggerated,

inconsistent, and/or overtly false; they are rooted in her

persecutory ideation and anxiety. While at times she appears to

volitionally lie or maneuver circumstances, there is evidence that

she believes many of the accusations she has made. There is no

evidence across this evaluation that supports her various claims

of abuse of [Child] (sexual and physical abuse, neglect, and

cruelty) by [Father].

Ex. Vol. VII p. 67. Dr. Krupsaw agreed that Mother's symptoms were

consistent with paranoia.

[17] Mother's paranoia is further displayed in her reports to Riley Hospital, the

DCS, CASA Heap, and Dr. McIntire. During the custody evaluation, Mother

made paranoid accusations when she accused Dr. McIntire of "turning up the

thermostat to make her uncomfortable so [Dr. McIntire] could say [Mother]

was flushed.” Tr. Vol. II p. 112. Mother also stated Dr. McIntire hung "a print

in the waiting room to intimidate [Child].” Tr. Vol. II p. 113.

[18] There is also ample evidence that Mother's paranoia has negatively affected

Child. Dr. McIntire found that "Mother's paranoid actions have shaped an

identical fear in [Child].” Ex. Vol. VI p. 243. Mother's mental-health issues

have created an enmeshment between Mother and Child that "creates

discomfort, if not distress, for both of them when they must separate.” Ex. Vol.

VII p. 25. Further, Mother's anxiety "bleeds off onto” Child and creates

distress in Child. Tr. Vol. II pp. 120, 211. CASA Heap also expressed concerns

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about Mother's mental health. In CASA Heap's opinion, Child's situation has

gotten worse since she completed her report in April of 2018. While Child is

bonded to Mother and her family, CASA Heap opined that the harm caused to

Child by Mother's unaddressed mental-health issues outweighs the bond

between them.

[19] Moreover, Mother has repeatedly failed to act upon suggestions from her

providers to seek counseling. Dr. McIntire opined that "[u]nfortunately, people

who are paranoid are usually not willing to go to therapy because they don't

trust anybody. So there is a double bind with trying to get them what they

need.” Tr. Vol. II pp. 113–14. At the time of the evidentiary hearing in

January of 2021, Mother had not engaged in the type of counseling

recommended by Dr. McIntire, specifically, "therapy with a doctoral-level

clinician who is informed that the purpose of therapy is to address paranoia,

separation difficulties, and parental alienation, rather than focus on alleged

victimization.” Ex. Vol. VII p. 69. Dr. McIntire recommended that the

therapist receive and review a copy of the custody evaluation. Dr. McIntire

concluded that "changing custody, without reducing the psychopathology that

has driven this case, will not eliminate the ongoing psychological harm to

[Child.]” Ex. Vol. VII p. 69.

[20] Mother testified that she began seeing Joseph Kowalow to "continue refining

myself and to continue seeking peace and promoting peace in a co-parenting

relationship and outside[.]” Tr. Vol. III p. 151. Mother, however, had had

only one session with Dr. Kowalow as of the date of the hearing, and it had

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been the day before. Moreover, Mother had not provided Dr. Kowalow with a

copy of Dr. McIntire's report as recommended by Dr. McIntire.

[21] While Mother sought to discredit Dr. McIntire's custody evaluation through

the testimony of Drs. Krupsaw and Jenuwine, it is well-settled that "the factfinder is not required to accept the opinions of experts regarding custody.”

Maddux, 40 N.E.3d at 980 (citing Clark v. Madden, 725 N.E.2d 100, 109 (Ind.

Ct. App. 2000)). In any event, Dr. Krupsaw found Dr. McIntire's custody

evaluation "'to be consistent with current basic professional practices

guidelines/standards[.]'” Tr. Vol. III p. 106. As for Dr. Jenuwine, while he

raised questions regarding Dr. McIntire's custody evaluation and her methods,

he had neither personally examined or evaluated any of the parties nor

performed a custody evaluation himself.

[22] Here, the trial court found that Dr. Jenuwine testified "in a manner[] which the

Court found to be evasive, condescending, and unconvincing.” Order p. 16.

Additionally, the trial court found that "Dr. McIntire [had] testified in a

straightforward professional manner” and that she had "effectively refuted any

and all criticisms and misrepresentations of her work.” Order p. 15. As for Dr.

Krupsaw's testimony, the trial court found that "in the end, [it] did not

substantially refute Dr. McIntire's findings.” Order p. 15. Consequently, the

record supports the trial court's conclusion that Mother's ongoing and

apparently worsening mental-health issues and instability, Mother's refusal to

address these issues, and the effect of Mother's unaddressed mental-health

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issues on Child are all substantial changes that warrant a modification of

custody to Father.

4. The Trial Court's Conclusions Regarding Likely Future Behavior

[23] Finally, Mother challenges the trial court's conclusions that Father is more

likely to address Child's health issues and would facilitate a positive

relationship with Mother. Although these are, of course, predictions regarding

future behavior, Mother argues, without citation to authority, that they cannot

be used to justify a custody change. It seems to us, however, that predictions of

future behavior will always factor into such decisions. The whole point, after

all, is to fashion a custody arrangement that will benefit Child moving forward.

With this in mind, we conclude that the trial court's findings in this regard have

ample support in the record.

[24] As for addressing Child's medical issues, most notably a speech impediment,

there is ample evidence to support a conclusion that this is an issue that Mother

has not properly acknowledged and that Father would do more to address. Dr.

McIntire's report indicates that while Child's "speech and language are

obviously impaired [and] a barrier for him and a source of frustration[,]”

Mother denies that there is a problem and "has never acknowledged or treated

this growing handicap.” Ex. Vol. VII. p. 242. In contrast, Child's

developmental delay "is an expressed concern of [Father,]” Ex. Vol. VII p. 23,

who at one point had set up an evaluation for Child. As it happened, Mother

never took Child to the evaluation, afterwards telling Child's pediatrician that

he had been evaluated and had been found not to need speech therapy. The

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trial court did not err in concluding that a change in custody would likely result

in Child receiving the medical care he needs for his speech impediment and

associated developmental delay.

[25] As for whether Father would facilitate a positive relationship with Mother,

there is ample evidence to support that conclusion as well. Mother's history of

alienating behavior has already been discussed. In contrast, Dr. McIntire

testified that throughout her entire evaluation she had not found any evidence

that Father had ever told Child inappropriate things about the litigation

between Father and Mother and that she had not witnessed any behaviors from

Father that would lead her to believe that Father would not encourage a

relationship between Child and Mother. CASA Heap described Father as a

"kind, stable parent” who is loving toward Child. Tr. Vol. II. p. 186.

[26] We have explicitly endorsed the principle that "[p]ast behavior is a valid

predictor for future conduct” in at least one custody case, Arms v. Arms, 803

N.E.2d 1201, 1210 (Ind. Ct. App. 2004), and we do so here. With this in mind,

we cannot say that the trial court erred in taking Mother's and Father's past

behavior into account here. We conclude that the trial court did not err in

making a finding of substantial and continuing change in circumstances

warranting a change in custody. In the end, much of Mother's argument on

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this point amounts to nothing more than an invitation to reweigh the evidence,

which we will not do. See Spencer, 684 N.E.2d at 501.

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B. The Effect of Cause No. CT-122 on This Litigation

[27] Mother argues that awarding Father custody of Child would be to allow him to

benefit from his own wrongdoing, specifically the actions that led to the civil

judgment in favor of Mother against Father and Girlfriend in Cause No. CT122. "Actions for and incidental to divorce are essentially equitable in nature.”

Pierce v. Pierce, 620 N.E.2d 726, 731 n.3 (Ind. Ct. App. 1993). "Equity dictates

that a right cannot arise to anyone out of his or her wrong.” Id. Accordingly,

"[a] parent may not sow seeds of discord and reap improved custody rights.”

Id. at 731. "When a parent requests a modification of custody, the substantial

change in circumstances cannot be the result of that parent's misconduct with

regard to custody.” Meade v. Levett, 671 N.E.2d 1172, 1177 (Ind. Ct. App.

1996).

[28] The trial court drew the following conclusions regarding the litigation in Cause

No. CT-122:

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Mother also argues that the trial court erred in concluding that a change in custody was in Child's best

interests. We see nothing in this argument to distinguish it from her argument regarding the trial court's

finding that there was a substantial and continuing change warranting a change in custody, as it consists

entirely of Mother's challenges to the evidence she challenged in this section and further invitations to

reweigh evidence in her favor. Put another way, the same evidence that supports that trial court's conclusion

that a change in custody is warranted supports a conclusion that a change in custody is in Child's best

interests. Because this ground has been adequately covered, we do not address it again in a separate section

of this memorandum decision.

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The Court does find the independent finder of fact's

Judgment in [Cause No. CT-122] informative as to the matters

before this Court.

The Court does not believe that the jury's conclusion in

that independent matter mandates a particular result in this case.

Rather, it is a factor to be considered, in light of all the evidence.

Order p. 18.

[29] We agree with the trial court's observation that the judgment in Cause No. CT122 does not require a particular result in this case. At most, the result of that

case establishes nothing more than that Father and Girlfriend knowingly made

one false report against Mother.2

While we certainly do not condone such

behavior, the trial court correctly viewed the false report as a factor to be

considered in light of the entirety of the evidence before it. That evidence

paints a picture of an extremely contentious custody battle in which,

unfortunately, both sides have leveled what the trial court found to be false

allegations of abuse against the other, among many other things. In light of

this, and the entirety of the other evidence (which has already been discussed in

detail), we cannot say that the trial court abused its discretion in concluding

that Father and Girlfriend's one false report did not require it to deny Father's

petition for a change of custody.

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The record contains evidence of false allegations of abuse by Mother in February of 2017 that resulted in

the temporary suspension of Father's parenting time.

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II. Attorney's Fees

[30] A trial court may award reasonable attorney fees in a dissolution matter

pursuant to Indiana Code § 31-17-7-1. "When making such an award, the trial

court must consider the resources of the parties, their economic condition, the

ability of the parties to engage in gainful employment and to earn adequate

income and other factors that bear on the reasonableness of the award.” Hanson

v. Spolnik, 685 N.E.2d 71, 80 (Ind. Ct. App. 1997) (citing In re the Marriage of

Lewis, 638 N.E.2d 859, 861 (Ind. Ct. App. 1994)), trans. denied. "Additionally,

misconduct that directly results in additional litigation expenses may be

properly taken into account in the trial court's decision to award attorney's

fees.” Id. Reversal of an award of attorney fees is proper only where the trial

court's award is clearly against the logic and effect of the facts and

circumstances before the court. In re Marriage of Julie C., 924 N.E.2d 1249, 1261

(Ind. Ct. App. 2010) (citing Claypool v. Claypool, 712 N.E.2d 1104, 1110 (Ind.

App. 1999), trans. denied).

[31] The trial court made the following findings regarding the award of attorney's

fees to Father:

106. the award of attorney fees to Father is reasonable,

given the nature of the litigation, the conduct of the parties,

Mother's unreasonable attempts to limit Father's parenting time,

the shear [sic] volume of the pleadings in the matter, and the

number and length of the hearings to date. The $9,000.00

awarded represents less than 1/8 of the amount paid by Mother

to only one of her four attorneys, which strikes the Court as a fair

measure of reasonableness.

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107. Mother's 2019 tax return reflects her family gross

income to be $122,860.00. While the Court does not consider

her spouse's income in determining the award of attorney fees,

the Court does consider that her husband supports her and that

Mother is voluntarily unemployed. Petitioner previously

operated her own business, which she later sold. She is capable

of gainful employment. Her financial circumstances simply

allow her not to have to work.

Appellant's App. Vol. II p. 69.

[32] We cannot say that the trial court abused its discretion in awarding Father

$9000.00 in attorney's fees. The trial court was entitled to conclude that

Father's decision to further litigate by moving for a change of custody was

essentially forced upon him by Mother's interference with his parenting time,

which had not occurred for approximately nine months when Father filed.

Under the circumstances, it is reasonable to infer that Father moved for a

change of custody because he feared he might not see Child again for quite

some time—if ever—if he did not. Moreover, the evidence regarding Mother's

resources indicate that she is well able to pay the award, with her husband

supporting her and earning over $120,000.00 per year and the large amounts

she has spent on her own representation. Consequently, we conclude that the

trial court's award of $9000.00 in attorney's fees was not unreasonable given

Mother's available resources, the income of her husband, Mother's actions

which increased the cost of litigation, and Mother's ability to be gainfully

employed.

Outcome:
We conclude that the trial court did not abuse its discretion in awarding sole

legal and primary physical custody of Child to Father. We further conclude

that the trial court did not abuse its discretion in awarding Father $9000.00 in

attorney’s fees.



The judgment of the trial court is affirmed.
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What was the outcome of Ashley Day-Ping v. CHARLES T RAMEY, III?

The outcome was: We conclude that the trial court did not abuse its discretion in awarding sole legal and primary physical custody of Child to Father. We further conclude that the trial court did not abuse its discretion in awarding Father $9000.00 in attorney’s fees. The judgment of the trial court is affirmed.

Which court heard Ashley Day-Ping v. CHARLES T RAMEY, III?

This case was heard in <center><h4><b> COURT OF APPEALS OF INDIANA </b> <br> <br> <font color="green"><i>On appeal from The Johnson Circuit Court </i></font></center></h4>, IN. The presiding judge was Cale J. Bradford.

Who were the attorneys in Ashley Day-Ping v. CHARLES T RAMEY, III?

Plaintiff's attorney: Click Here to Watch How To Find A Lawyer by Kent Morlan Click Here For The Best Indianapolis, IN. - Divorce Lawyer Directory. Defendant's attorney: Heather L. George Myers.

When was Ashley Day-Ping v. CHARLES T RAMEY, III decided?

This case was decided on May 8, 2022.