Description: Our decision in this case is controlled by the 1980 Hague
Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction (“Convention” or “Hague
Convention”), which dictates that a wrongfully removed child must be returned to the country of
habitual residence. Our precedent has demonstrated that where a child lives exclusively in one
country, that country is presumed to be the child’s habitual residence. In fact, we have gone so
far as to call such cases “simple.” Because we hold that in this case the country of habitual
residence is Italy and that there is no grave risk of harm to the child under the meaning of the
Convention, we must affirm the district court’s judgment ordering the return of A.M.T. to Italy
under the Hague Convention.
Domenico Taglieri, a citizen of Italy, was studying for a doctoral degree at the University
of Illinois at Chicago, when he met Michelle Monasky, an American citizen who was joining his
research team. The two colleagues began dating and eventually married in September 2011.
Taglieri received his Ph.D. in 2011 and obtained a post-doctoral appointment at the University of
Illinois at Chicago. The two made the mutual decision to move to Italy to pursue career
opportunities, with Taglieri leaving first in February 2013. According to Taglieri, he had made it
clear that he considered Italy to be his long-term destination, as he was licensed to practice
medicine in Italy and would have had to acquire certifications and meet onerous requirements to
practice in the United States. But in an e-mail Monasky sent to Taglieri in April 2013, she
wrote: “don’t think that [the fact that we are moving to Milan or Rome] means we are done with
the US [for good.]”
Taglieri began working at a hospital in Palermo, Italy, in February 2013. In June 2013,
he switched to a new position as an anesthesiologist at Humanitas Hospital in Milan. The next
month, Monasky moved to Italy to join Taglieri in Milan. She received a fellowship with
Università Vita Salute San Raffaele in Milan in September 2013. In April 2014, Monasky was
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given a two-year fellowship with Humanitas Hospital, with a significant increase in pay.
Taglieri had a one-year contract with Humanitas Hospital, which the hospital did not offer to
renew, and he began looking elsewhere for a new position. In June 2014, he secured a
permanent position with Maria Cecilia Hospital in Lugo, a city outside of Ravenna that is about
two hours and forty minutes by car southeast of Milan. In addition, he found an apartment in
Lugo where he could stay during the workweek.
Monasky became pregnant in May 2014. According to Taglieri, the couple had decided
to start a family and try for a child. Monasky disputes this description, stating that she had
become pregnant despite her wishes because of Taglieri “becoming more aggressive with sex.”
She recounts in particular one occasion where Taglieri allegedly got on top of her and insisted,
“[S]pread your legs, or I will spread them for you.” In addition to sexual abuse, Monasky alleges
that Taglieri frequently slapped or hit her with force, causing her to grow increasingly fearful.
Taglieri acknowledges “smack[ing]” Monasky once in March 2014, but denies that he struck her
again after that time. The district court in this case concluded that Taglieri had “struck Monasky
on her face in March 2014,” and found Monasky’s further testimony with respect to the domestic
Tension was increasing in the marriage for other reasons in addition to the physical and
sexual abuse. The long-distance arrangement of Taglieri’s frequent travel and stays in Lugo
while Monasky was in Milan put greater strain on the marriage. Furthermore, in accordance
with Italian law, Monasky was required to suspend her work and go on maternity leave in
January 2015, in anticipation of the upcoming birth of her child. She encountered difficulties in
having her academic credentials recognized by Italy, to the degree that she wrote to the United
States Senator of her family’s home state of Ohio for assistance. Monasky did not speak much
Italian and had significant problems performing basic tasks, such as calling someone to fix the
electricity, as a result. Finally, her pregnancy was medically complicated, with Monasky
suffering a near-miscarriage early on.
All of these stressors produced a rocky relationship. Monasky applied for jobs in the
United States, contacted American divorce lawyers, and researched American health- and childcare
options. But the couple also investigated Italian child-care options and discussed
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purchasing items for the baby, such as a stroller, car seat, and night light. Monasky sought an
Italian driver’s license and she and Taglieri moved to a larger apartment in the Milanese suburb
of Basiglio under a one-year lease under Monasky’s name (with the option to break the lease on
three months’ notice). By January, “emails between the parties, reflecting words of affection,
suggest that their relationship was less turbulent than before.” Serenity, if it did exist, was shortlived.
In early February, the two began “having a lot of fights,” and arguing over how the birth
would proceed. Monasky e-mailed Taglieri regarding a possible collaborative divorce. At the
same time, she sought quotes for the cost of moving to back to Ohio.
At a subsequent pregnancy-check-up appointment in mid-February, doctors
recommended that labor be induced. Monasky declined and the two left despite Taglieri’s
protestations. According to Taglieri, he was angry, concerned, and embarrassed that Monasky
had refused the procedure, rejected the advice of fellow physicians, and declined to stay at the
hospital. During the forty-minute ride home, the pair argued over Monasky’s decision. Minutes
before they arrived at their apartment, Monasky told Taglieri that she had begun experiencing
contraction-like pains and asked him to bring her back to the hospital. Taglieri refused, advising
that they should wait and see how things progressed. By this point, it was after ten o’clock in the
evening. The two arrived at the apartment and continued to argue. During this “heated
conversation,” Taglieri called Monasky “the son of a devil” and told her that she could take a
taxi back to the hospital if she wanted to return. Sometime during the very early morning hours
of the next day, Monasky took a taxi to the hospital—having experienced contractions all night
long. Taglieri contends that Monasky left while he was sleeping, and he immediately went to the
hospital once he awoke and learned that Monasky was already on her way.
After protracted labor, A.M.T. was born via an emergency caesarean section. Taglieri
and Monasky’s mother, whom he had brought from the airport, were present for the birth. After
Monasky was released from the hospital after a week’s stay, Taglieri returned to Lugo while
Monasky endured a “difficult” recovery in Basiglio, cared for by her mother. Her recovery was
hampered by a previous surgery, which—coupled with the caesarean section—made rising or
sitting strenuous. Taglieri returned to Basiglio at the beginning of March, following the
departure of Monasky’s mother, and Monasky broached the subject of divorce once more. She
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renewed the discussion in an e-mail sent the next day, noting that although Taglieri
“seemed . . . not ready,” she wanted to divorce him amicably and leave Italy with A.M.T.
Monasky informed her family of her intentions to divorce Taglieri through numerous e-mails.
Taglieri returned to Lugo alone on March 2, but the next day Monasky agreed to join him in
Lugo with A.M.T. The parties strongly dispute the motivation behind the trip: Monasky stated
that she agreed “in a moment of weakness,” given the difficulties of caring for a newborn child
alone while recovering from the caesarean section, and brought only “a couple of suitcases and
[a] stroller.” Taglieri hoped the couple would use the time to “clarify any existing issues.”
Taglieri described the family’s time in Lugo as a reconciliation, during which they
returned to “the regular course of . . . life.” Monasky continued preparations to take her Italian
driving test by signing up with a driving school for mandatory lessons and completing a number
of sessions, registered the family for an au pair and sought childcare for “June [through]
August,” scheduled doctor’s appointments for A.M.T., and coordinated with her aunt to schedule
a future visit to Italy in September. The couple celebrated A.M.T.’s one-month birthday,
traveled to Bologna for a family day-trip, discussed ideas regarding their scientific work, and
asked Monasky’s mother-in-law to babysit A.M.T. when Monasky traveled to a professional
conference in Germany in July.
Conversely, Monasky stated that the trip to Lugo was not an attempt to reconcile the
marriage; rather, her intent to leave Italy was fixed. She explained the coordination with her aunt
was the result of not wanting to mention an impending divorce to a family member who was
only an infrequent contact, and she hoped to be able to explain things face-to-face in the United
States. As for the driver’s license and medical appointments, Monasky testified that they were
necessary to take care of A.M.T. and “until [she and A.M.T.] could return to the United States,
[she and Taglieri] were just doing what any parent would do and just schedul[ing]
Monasky also engaged in a number of other activities that indicated that she would be in
Italy in at least the near future: she wrote to her OB/GYN in Milan and stated that she hoped to
bring A.M.T. to meet her and she continued her attempts to get her degrees recognized. She was,
however, in contact with Italian divorce attorneys in an attempt to learn more about Italian
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divorce law and child custody. Additionally, in early March 2015 Monasky withdrew Taglieri’s
access to a joint investment account, allegedly out of concern that he would remove all of its
funds and then leave her with nothing. Taglieri was upset that he could not view the account,
and Monasky restored his access within a week. While the two were in Lugo, they arranged to
complete the process of registering A.M.T.’s birth at the United States consulate and obtaining
her Italian and American passports (a process that had begun in late February). According to
Taglieri, these passports were necessary for a trip that was planned for the family to visit
Monasky’s family in the United States in May.
On March 31, 2015, Monasky and Taglieri had another argument, which began over
Taglieri refusing to allow Monasky to change A.M.T.’s clothes after she had urinated in them
because of the cost of laundry. In the course of the argument, Monasky slammed the table.
According to Monasky, Taglieri raised his hand as if to strike her with a terrible look on his face
that frightened her. Taglieri did not hit her, however. After this, Taglieri left for work and
Monasky took A.M.T. to the police, reported her husband, and sought refuge in a safe house in
an undisclosed location. Her statement to the police indicated that her husband was abusive, that
at the hospital nursery he had shouted at a crying A.M.T. that he would buy formula and shove it
up A.M.T.’s bottom, and that she was frightened that Taglieri would kill her. She indicated that
she was “waiting in Lugo for [her] exam [on] April 15, then [would] try to return to Milan, and
try to open a new bank account for my salary, [etc.]” Taglieri returned home to find an empty
apartment and neither Monasky nor her parents would answer his phone calls. He went to the
police, explaining that he could not find his wife and child, and asked if they could send a police
car to check the Basiglio apartment to see if she was home. The police instead suggested that he
find himself a lawyer.
Taglieri did acquire counsel and eventually was put into contact with Monasky over the
phone. Through his counsel, he sought to withdraw his consent for the American passport
application and to block A.M.T.’s passports to prevent her from leaving the country. Despite
these efforts, Monasky obtained her daughter’s American passport and left Italy with eightweek-
old A.M.T. on April 15, 2015, for the United States. Taglieri was informed that Monasky
and A.M.T. had gone missing from the safe house and he sought proceedings in an Italian court
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to determine his parental rights. The court terminated Monasky’s parental rights, and Taglieri
filed a petition in the United States District Court for the Northern District of Ohio on May 14,
2015, seeking the return of his daughter to Italy pursuant to the Convention. The parties then
presented their arguments before Chief Judge Solomon Oliver, and Monasky sought summary
judgment and the denial of the request for a return order.
After denying Monasky’s motion for summary judgment, the district court held a fourday
trial in March 2016. In an order issued six months later, the district court granted Taglieri’s
petition for the return of A.M.T. to Italy, to be accomplished within forty-five days. The district
court held that in cases of very young children, “the shared intent of the parties is relevant,” and
that under this standard, A.M.T.’s habitual residence (and therefore the location that she should
be returned to) was Italy. Chief Judge Oliver found that Monasky had no definitive plans to
return to the United States until the final altercation at the end of March. Finally, the court also
held that the other requirements of the Convention had been met: Taglieri had properly exercised
his custody rights, A.M.T.’s removal was wrongful, and Monasky had not shown by clear and
convincing evidence that Taglieri posed a grave risk of harm to A.M.T. Monasky moved to stay
the order pending appeal to the Sixth Circuit and her motion was partially granted by the district
court to give this court the opportunity to rule on the motion. We denied the motion to stay,
finding that “a balance of . . . [relevant] factors weighed against staying the return order.” An
application for an emergency stay pending appeal submitted to Justice Kagan also was denied.
As a result, A.M.T. was returned to Italy.
The object of the Hague Convention, as professed in its preamble, is “to protect children
internationally from the harmful effects of their wrongful removal or retention and to establish
procedures to ensure their prompt return to the State of their habitual residence.” Convention on
the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction pmbl., Oct. 25, 1980, T.I.A.S. No. 11,670,
1343 U.N.T.S. 49 (reprinted at 51 Fed. Reg. 10494 (Mar. 26, 1986)). In order to do so, the
Convention established a system whereby “a court in the abducted-to nation has jurisdiction to
decide the merits of an abduction claim, but not the merits of the underlying custody dispute.”
Friedrich v. Friedrich, 78 F.3d 1060, 1063 (6th Cir. 1996) (“Friedrich II”); Convention art. 19.
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This system is “generally intended to restore the pre-abduction status quo and to deter parents
from crossing borders in search of a more sympathetic court.” Friedrich II, 78 F.3d at 1064.
Under the federal implementing statute, the International Child Abduction Remedies Act
(“ICARA”), 22 U.S.C. §§ 9001–9008, 9010–9011 (Supp. II 2014), 42 U.S.C. § 663 (2012), a
petitioner seeking the return of a child must establish by a preponderance of the evidence “that
the child has been wrongfully removed or retained within the meaning of the Convention.”
22 U.S.C. § 9003(e)(1)(A). The Convention (in relevant part) defines as wrongful the removal
or retention of a child “in breach of rights of custody . . . under the law of the [Contracting] State
in which the child was habitually resident immediately before the removal or retention.”
Convention art. 3. The initial critical question that we must address is whether Taglieri has
established that A.M.T. was removed in breach of the law of the State in which she was
habitually resident. If so, we must determine whether an exception applies. “We review the
district court’s findings of fact for clear error and review its conclusions about American,
foreign, and international law de novo.” Friedrich II, 78 F.3d at 1064.
A. Habitual Residence
The answer to the first question depends upon the meaning of the term “habitual
residence.” This court has had the opportunity to explore its meaning before, and a brief
summary of our past analysis is in order here. When we were first confronted with the term in
Friedrich v. Friedrich, 983 F.2d 1396 (6th Cir. 1993) (“Friedrich I”), we called the facts before
us “a simple case. [The child] was born in Germany and resided exclusively in Germany until
his mother removed him to the United States . . . ; therefore, we hold that [the child] was a
habitual resident of Germany at the time of his removal.” Id. at 1402. In Simcox v. Simcox,
511 F.3d 594 (6th Cir. 2007), we also held that a child who “was born in Mexico and resided
there her entire life (other than for some temporary sojourns abroad)” was a habitual resident of
Mexico, describing the case as similarly simple. Id. at 602. Simcox and Friedrich I therefore
stand for the proposition that when a child has lived exclusively in one country, that country is
presumed to be the child’s habitual residence.
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In Robert v. Tesson, 507 F.3d 981 (6th Cir. 2007), we considered a more difficult
question, namely, “what standard should apply when a child has alternated residences between
two or more nations.” Id. at 992. In those cases, we held that “a child’s habitual residence is the
nation where, at the time of their removal, the child has been present long enough to allow
acclimatization, and where this presence has a ‘degree of settled purpose from the child’s
perspective.’” Id. at 993 (quoting Feder v. Evans-Feder, 63 F.3d 217, 224 (3d Cir. 1995)).
However, we expressly left resolution of the yet more difficult questions of the application of
Robert’s acclimatization standard to the case of a child “who lacks cognizance of his or her
surroundings,” and whether the subjective intentions of such a child’s parents are relevant to
determining habitual residence. Id. at 992 n.4; see also Simcox, 511 F.3d at 602 n.2 (“[T]his
standard may not be appropriate in cases involving infants or other very young children.”). We
recently resolved these questions in Ahmed v. Ahmed, 867 F.3d 682 (6th Cir. 2017), a case
involving very young children traveling between nations. We concluded that, under those
circumstances, a court may determine a very young child’s habitual residence by considering the
“shared parental intent” of where the parents last mutually intended the child to live. Id. at 689–
This brief survey reveals that we use three distinct standards to determine a child’s
habitual residence under the Convention. In cases where the child has resided exclusively in a
single country, that country is the child’s habitual residence. But when the child has alternated
residences between two or more nations, our analysis is more complicated. In such cases, we
begin by applying the acclimatization standard. See id. at 690. If that test supports the
conclusion that a particular country is the child’s habitual residence, then that is the end of the
analysis. But if the case cannot be resolved through application of the acclimatization standard,
such as those cases that involve “especially young children who lack the cognizance to acclimate
to any residence,” we then consider the shared parental intent of the child’s parents. Ibid. (“The
conclusion that the acclimatization standard is unworkable with children this young then requires
consideration of any shared parental intent.”).
With this framework in mind, we observe that a straightforward application of precedent
would seem to compel the conclusion that the habitual residence of A.M.T. was Italy. Here,
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A.M.T. was born in Italy and resided there exclusively until Monasky took A.M.T. to the United
States in April 2015. Similarly, Friedrich I based its conclusion that the child in question had a
habitual residence in Germany on the fact that the child had “resided exclusively in Germany.”
983 F.2d at 1402. Simcox also found exclusive residence dispositive. 511 F.3d at 602.
Monasky and the dissent contend that our recent opinion in Ahmed requires a different
result. It is true that Ahmed spoke broadly about young children, but it dealt specifically with the
application of the acclimatization standard, which both Robert and Simcox recognized as difficult
to apply in cases of small children. Robert, 507 F.3d at 992 n.4; Simcox, 511 F.3d at 602 n.2.
But Robert made clear that the acclimatization test did not apply to children who had remained in
one nation; rather, that test “should apply when a child has alternated residences between two or
more nations.” 507 F.3d at 992. Properly understood, then, Ahmed’s adoption of a sharedparental-
intent standard makes such intent relevant only in those cases where the acclimatization
standard both applies and fails. See Ahmed, 867 F.3d at 689 (explaining that the “most
compelling reason” for adopting the shared-parental-intent standard was the inability of the
acclimatization test of Robert to address the situation of young children). Accordingly, Ahmed
did not modify or displace the alternative standard and guidance that Friedrich I and Simcox
provided for children with exclusively one country of residence. Robert and Ahmed dealt with
one situation, while Friedrich I and (in part) Simcox dealt with another.
Consequently, the dispositive factor here is that this is not a case where “a child has
alternated residences between two or more nations,” the situation that Robert’s acclimatization
test was crafted to address and the one that faced the Ahmed panel. Robert, 507 F.3d at 992; see
also Ahmed, 867 F.3d at 684–86. Instead, prior to the removal in question, A.M.T. never was
outside of Italy. “It would seem that [if] the child has only ever lived in the country where he is
born, he must be habitually resident there.” Rhona Schuz, The Hague Child Abduction
Convention: A Critical Analysis 203 (2013). Such a statement appears to hold true for the minerun
of cases. Where a child has remained in one place for its entire life, that place is the
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expected location where it may be found and may be considered its residence. Thus, A.M.T.’s
habitual residence was the country from which she was taken, Italy.1
We recognize that there can be some difficulties with our approach. What of the case of
Delvoye v. Lee, 329 F.3d 330 (3rd Cir. 2003), where a pregnant mother was convinced by the
father of the child to give birth in his country for reasons of cost, but lived out of her suitcases
and never intended to remain in the new country? Id. at 332. Such a scenario is not beyond
imagination in our circuit; “birth tourism” for reasons of cost or citizenship is not unheard of and
could lead to situations like that in Delvoye. We presume that such cases will be few and best
dealt with as they arise, in keeping with the Convention’s more flexible and fact-intensive
nature.2 See Robert, 507 F.3d at 989 (“[H]abitual residence should not be determined through
the ‘technical’ rules governing legal residence or common law domicile” and instead should be
guided by “[t]he facts and circumstances of each case.”) (second alteration in original) (quoting
Friedrich I, 983 F.3d at 1401).
B. Exercise of Custody Rights
The district court also concluded that “Taglieri has proven, by a preponderance of the
evidence, that he was exercising his custody rights to A.M.T. under Italian law at the time of her
removal.” The burden of proving the exercise of custody rights falls on the petitioner, who must
establish it by a preponderance of the evidence. Friedrich II, 78 F.3d at 1064; 22 U.S.C.
9003(e)(1)(A). “Custody rights ‘may arise in particular by operation of law or by reason of a
judicial or administrative decision, or by reason of an agreement having legal effect under the
law of the State.’” Friedrich II, 78 F.3d at 1064 (quoting Convention art. 3).
Under Italian law, parental responsibility and authority over a child are held by both
parents, exercised by mutual accord. 1 C.c. tit. IX, art. 316 (It.). With marriage, a husband and
1Again, we reiterate that our case does not concern an infant who has resided in multiple countries, which is the
situation that Ahmed addressed. We limit our scope to those cases where a child has been residing exclusively in
one State prior to a contested removal.
2Other cases with potential problems might include unexpected births in a foreign country, children born to
itinerant parents, or physical coercion. We express no opinion on what the appropriate standard should be for such
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wife acquire the same rights and assume the same duties. 1 C.c. tit. VI, art. 143 (It.). But even
upon separation of married parties, the parental responsibilities of both parents continue. 1 C.c.
tit. IX, art. 317 (It.). “Under Italian law, the term ‘parental responsibility,’ though not explicitly
defined, ‘implies the totality of rights and duties exercised exclusively in the interest of the child
by the parents.’” Taglieri v. Monasky, No. 1:15-cv-00947-SO, slip op. at 23 (quoting Pl.’s Ex.
60, Prof. Salvatore Patti et al., Parental Responsibilities: Italy ¶ 1). Moreover, an Italian juvenile
court has determined that Taglieri has parental rights. Thus, it is clear that Taglieri had custody
rights to A.M.T. at the time of the removal.
“[I]f a person has valid custody rights to a child under the law of the country of the
child's habitual residence, that person cannot fail to ‘exercise’ those custody rights under the
Hague Convention short of acts that constitute clear and unequivocal abandonment of the child.”
Friedrich II, 78 F.3d at 1066. There is no evidence of such acts in this record. Taglieri took
A.M.T. on a family trip to Bologna and held a celebration for her first month, among other
parental acts. Even after A.M.T. was removed from Italy, “Taglieri [took] steps to remain in
contact with A.M.T.” Taglieri v. Monasky, No. 1:15-cv-00947-SO, slip op. at 24. The district
court’s conclusion that Taglieri was exercising his custody rights to A.M.T. was not clear error.
Accordingly, Taglieri sufficiently demonstrated that the removal of A.M.T. was wrongful.
C. Grave Risk of Harm
Our holding that the removal of A.M.T. was wrongful does not completely resolve the
case. Monasky argues that even if we hold that the removal was wrongful, an exception applies.
The Convention provides that “the judicial . . . authority of the requested State is not bound to
order the return of the child if [the opposing party] establishes that . . . there is a grave risk that
his or her return would expose the child to physical or psychological harm or otherwise place the
child in an intolerable situation.” Convention art. 13. The burden of proof established by
ICARA is Monasky’s, who must demonstrate the grave risk of harm by “clear and convincing
evidence.” 22 U.S.C. 9003(e)(2)(A). We review the district court’s decision with regard to
grave risk de novo. Simcox, 511 F.3d at 601.
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Simcox illustrates the required showing where a grave risk is alleged. We stressed that
the exception “is to be interpreted narrowly, lest it swallow the rule.” Id. at 604. But we also
noted that “there is a danger of making the threshold so insurmountable that district courts will
be unable to exercise any discretion in all but the most egregious cases of abuse.” Id. at 608.
Findings of grave risk are necessarily fact intensive, and thus the findings of the district court are
particularly instructive. In this case, the district court found Monasky’s testimony with respect to
the domestic and sexual abuse against her to be credible. But the court also observed that “the
frequency with which Taglieri subjected Monasky to physical violence and severity of the
physical violence is unclear,” and found that there was “no evidence to suggest that Taglieri was
ever physically violent towards A.M.T.” The first half of the exception makes plain that the risk
of physical or psychological harm is directed to the child. In Simcox, the petitioner (the
children’s father) had repeatedly struck and belted the children, under the ostensible authority of
parental discipline. Id. at 599. Our court held that the burden of establishing by clear and
convincing evidence a grave risk of harm had been met in that case and that undertakings
directed to maintaining the safety of the children likely were appropriate, subject to the
discretion of the district court. Id. at 609–10. But we found Simcox to be “a close question,” and
weighed the “serious nature of the abuse, the extreme frequency with which it occurred, and the
reasonable likelihood that it will occur again absent sufficient protection.” Id. at 609. As noted
above, Chief Judge Oliver found that the frequency and severity of violence to Monasky were
unclear, and that there was no evidence that violence was ever directed at A.M.T.
This is not to say that a child who is not herself subject to physical abuse is never in
grave risk of psychological harm or of being placed in an “intolerable situation.” Amici argue
that A.M.T. was both a direct and indirect victim of physical domestic abuse in utero; that her
exposure to domestic violence as an infant creates a grave risk of harm; that Taglieri’s history of
abusive behavior makes it more likely that he will engage in abusive behavior in the future
creating an intolerable situation for A.M.T.; that a pattern of abuse and neglect of A.M.T. creates
a grave risk of physical and psychological harm to A.M.T. and places her in an intolerable
situation; and that A.M.T.’s separation from her supportive parent, Monasky, further perpetuates
the abuse and increases the grave risk of physical harm. But we must acknowledge that the facts
before us, while demonstrating that Taglieri has engaged in appalling and justly censurable
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activity, do not “show that the risk to the child is grave, not merely serious.” Friedrich II,
78 F.3d at 1068 (quoting Public Notice 957, 51 Fed. Reg. 10494, 10510 (Mar. 26, 1986)). As a
result, Monasky has failed to meet her burden to show by clear and convincing evidence that a
grave risk of harm to A.M.T. exists or that there is a grave risk that A.M.T. would be placed in
an intolerable situation.
The foundation of our test for determining habitual residence has always been the
experiences of the child. With regard to determining A.M.T.’s experiences here, “[t]his is a
simple case.” Friedrich I, 983 F.2d at 1402. Having spent her entire life in Italy, it is
appropriate to hold that her habitual residence was Italy. Accordingly, we AFFIRM the district
court’s decision to grant Taglieri’s petition to return A.M.T. to her country of habitual residence,
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KAREN NELSON MOORE, Circuit Judge, dissenting. The Hague Convention’s
admirable goal is to “protect children internationally from the harmful effects of their wrongful
removal or retention and to establish procedures to ensure their prompt return to the State of their
habitual residence.” Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction (1980).
The key question in this Hague Convention case is: Where is A.M.T.’s habitual residence, if one
exists at all? The majority recharacterizes our prior decisions on this issue and, in doing so,
alters the standards we have used to determine a child’s habitual residence under the Hague
Convention. Because I believe that the majority’s analysis in this case distorts our precedent,
I respectfully dissent.
“The question of which standard should be applied in determining a child’s habitual
residence under the Hague Convention is one of law, and is reviewed de novo by this Court.”
Robert v. Tesson, 507 F.3d 981, 987 (6th Cir. 2007). The determination of habitual residence, on
the other hand, “is one of fact, and is reviewed for abuse of discretion.” Id. at 995. Pursuant to
the Hague Convention, “the petitioner must prove by a preponderance of the evidence that the
children who are the subject of the petition were removed from their habitual residence.” Id.
(citing Friedrich v. Friedrich (Friedrich I), 983 F.2d 1396, 1400 (6th Cir. 1993)).
We first addressed the question of habitual residence in Friedrich I, 983 F.3d 1396. In
that case, we articulated “five principles which guide this Court” in determining a child’s
habitual residence.” Robert, 507 F.3d at 989. First, habitual residence should not be determined
on the basis of technical rules. Friedrich I, 983 F.2d at 1401. Friedrich I instead said that “[t]he
facts and circumstances of each case should . . . be assessed without resort to presumptions or
presuppositions.” Id. (quoting In Re Bates, No. CA 122.89, High Court of Justice, Family Div’n
Ct., Royal Court of Justice, United Kingdom (1989)). Second, “the court must focus on the
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child, not the parents” and evaluate the child’s experience. Id. Third, an inquiry into a child’s
habitual residence must “examine past experience, not future intentions.” Id. Fourth, an
individual “can have only one habitual residence.” Id. Finally, the parents’ nationality does not
affect the child’s habitual residence, but rather the habitual residence is controlled by “geography
and the passage of time.” Id. at 1401–02.
The principles elucidated by Friedrich I worked well in that case, where the child had
lived exclusively in Germany for two years after he was born, but we recognized that the case
provided minimal guidance in other situations. Robert, 507 F.3d at 992. Thus, in Robert, we
adopted an approach developed by other circuits, which we found was “consistent with Friedrich
I’s holding.” 507 F.3d at 993. In Robert, we held “that a child’s habitual residence is the nation
where, at the time of their removal, the child has been present long enough to allow
acclimatization, and where this presence has a ‘degree of settled purpose from the child’s
perspective.’” Id. (quoting Feder v. Evans-Feder, 63 F.3d 217, 224 (3d Cir. 1995)). In adopting
this “acclimatization standard,” however, we recognized that it would prove difficult to apply in
a case involving “a very young or developmentally disabled child [who] may lack cognizance of
their surroundings sufficient to become acclimatized to a particular country or to develop a sense
of settled purpose” and left open the question of what standard to apply in such a situation.
Robert, 507 F.3d at 992 n.4. In Simcox v. Simcox, 511 F.3d 594 (6th Cir. 2007), decided shortly
after Robert, we reaffirmed that the acclimatization standard was the appropriate test to utilize
when determining a child’s residency, but recognized that “this standard may not be appropriate
in cases involving infants or other very young children.” 511 F.3d at 602 & n.2.
In our recent decision in Ahmed v. Ahmed, 867 F.3d 682 (6th Cir. 2017), we reached the
question left open by Robert and Simcox and addressed the issue of determining habitual
residence for infants who are not old enough to have developed “a sense of settled purpose.”
Because the facts and analysis in that case mirror the case at bar, I will discuss Ahmed in detail.
Mr. and Mrs. Ahmed married in 2009 while Mr. Ahmed, a U.K. citizen, lived in London
and Mrs. Ahmed, a U.S. citizen, lived in Michigan. Ahmed, 867 F.3d at 684. After Mrs. Ahmed
finished her optometry studies in the United States, she moved to London to live with her
husband. Upon her arrival in 2011, she sought to become a licensed optometrist in the United
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Kingdom and received the U.K. equivalent of a Social Security Number. Id. at 685. Mrs.
Ahmed then returned to the United States for further optometry training. Subsequently, in 2013,
Mrs. Ahmed rejoined her husband in the United Kingdom; she intended for this to be a
permanent move and applied for Indefinite Leave to Remain in the United Kingdom. Following
Mrs. Ahmed’s return to the United Kingdom, the couple’s relationship grew acrimonious. In
February 2014, Mrs. Ahmed became pregnant with twins. Following “a bitter argument” in May
2014, she returned to the United States. Id. The couple disputed whether or not Mrs. Ahmed
planned to return, but Mrs. Ahmed claimed she did not, and brought her valuables back to the
United States. Mr. Ahmed traveled to the United States on a three-month visa in order to be
present at the birth of the couple’s twins. When his visa expired, Mr. Ahmed returned to the
United Kingdom. In May 2015, the whole family journeyed to the United Kingdom. Mr.
Ahmed asserted that this was a permanent relocation; in contrast, Mrs. Ahmed claimed that this
was a short visit to determine whether her marriage was still viable. In August 2015, Mrs.
Ahmed returned to the United States with her children via Bangladesh. Id. at 686. Mr. Ahmed
subsequently filed a petition in the Eastern District of Tennessee to return the twins under the
Hague Convention. The district court denied Mr. Ahmed’s petition.
In our subsequent decision affirming the district court’s denial of Mr. Ahmed’s petition,
we extensively discussed our prior cases analyzing the Hague Convention. We began by stating
that “[w]e have generally preferred the acclimatization standard because it serves one of the main
purposes of the Hague Convention: ensuring a child is not kept from her family and social
environment.” Id. at 688. We noted, however, that there was a “gap” in our precedent
“concerning especially young children.” Id. at 689. Consequently, we discussed the reasons for
adopting a different standard for determining habitual residence for infants than for older
children. First, “[t]he most compelling reason for applying the settled mutual intent standard is
the difficulty, if not impossibility, of applying the acclimatization standard to especially young
children.” Id. Furthermore, we noted the persuasive authority of other circuits: “Every circuit
to have determined whether a country constituted a habitual residence considers both the
acclimatization and shared parental intent standards. . . . And all but the Fourth and Eighth
Circuits prioritize shared parental intent in cases concerning especially young children.” Id. at
689–90 (collecting cases in which the First, Second, Third, Fourth, Fifth, Seventh, Eighth, Ninth,
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Tenth, and Eleventh circuits utilize the shared-parental-intent standard). Based on these reasons,
we concluded that:
[I]t is appropriate to consider the shared parental intent of the parties in cases
involving especially young children who lack the cognizance to acclimate to any
residence. This is not a bright-line rule, and the determination of when the
acclimatization standard is impracticable must largely be made by the lower
courts, which are best positioned to discern the unique facts and circumstances of
each case. We make no changes to the acclimatization standard itself, which
lower courts should continue to apply in accordance with our precedent.
Id. at 690 (citations omitted).21
Applying this newly clarified analysis to the Ahmeds’ situation, we first began with the
acclimatization standard as articulated in Simcox: “[A] court should consider whether the child
has been ‘physically present [in the country] for an amount of time sufficient for acclimatization’
and whether the place ‘has a degree of settled purpose from the child’s perspective.’” Simcox,
511 F.3d at 602 (second alteration in original) (quoting Robert, 507 F.3d at 989). We concluded
that the Ahmed twins—who were less than a year old when they traveled from the United
Kingdom to the United States in August 2015—were unable to have acquired a “degree of
settled purpose.” Ahmed, 867 F.3d at 690. Therefore, “[t]he conclusion that the acclimatization
standard is unworkable with children this young then requires consideration of any shared
parental intent to determine if Mr. Ahmed has shown that the United Kingdom was the children’s
habitual residence when they were retained.” Id. After reviewing the district court’s findings of
fact, we held that the district court was not clearly erroneous when it found that the Ahmeds
lacked a shared intent as to their children’s residence. Id. Mr. Ahmed, therefore, “failed to carry
his burden under the shared parental intent standard.” Id. Because Mr. Ahmed could not
“prove by a preponderance of evidence, under either standard, that the United Kingdom was
1Ahmed did not discuss whether the shared-parental-intent standard should apply to “developmentally
disabled child[ren who] may lack cognizance of their surroundings sufficient to become acclimatized to a particular
country or to develop a sense of settled purpose.” Robert, 507 F.3d at 992 n.4. This issue is not presented here, but
I believe that the reasoning in Ahmed as to why the shared-parental-intent standard is appropriate in determining the
habitual residence of a very young child is equally applicable to a child who, despite her biological age, is so
significantly developmentally disabled that her level of consciousness of her surroundings is equal to that of an
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the children’s habitual residence when Mrs. Ahmed traveled with them to the United States,” we
affirmed the district court’s denial of his petition. Id. at 691.
The majority today holds that A.M.T.’s habitual residence was Italy, the country from
which she was taken. Maj. Op. at 11. It reaches that erroneous result by adopting a formalistic,
rigid, bright-line rule that a child’s habitual residence is her country of birth if she has
exclusively resided in that country. Maj. Op. at 10. This conclusion is in contravention of
Friedrich I’s admonition that residence should not be determined on the basis of bright-line rules
and instead “[t]he facts and circumstances of each case should . . . be assessed without resort to
presumptions or presuppositions.” Friedrich I, 983 F.2d at 1401 (internal quotation marks
omitted). Furthermore, the majority claims that its bright-line rule is one of “three distinct
standards” that our caselaw has developed to determine a child’s habitual residence. Maj. Op. at
9. This characterization distorts our prior precedent which has articulated two standards. “We
have generally preferred the acclimatization standard,” but when that standard is unworkable, we
have applied the shared-parental-intent standard. Ahmed, 867 F.3d at 688–90; see also Simcox,
511 F.3d at 602 (applying the acclimatization standard, but recognizing another standard may
need to be used for children incapable of forming a degree of settled purpose); Robert, 507 F.3d
at 992–93 (same). Friedrich I provides a further set of principles that we use when considering
the specific facts and circumstances of each case within the framework of the applicable
standard. Simply, our prior precedent does not support the majority’s approach in this case.
Our analysis in Ahmed compels the result in this case. First, it is clear that the
acclimatization standard is not “workable” in this situation. Here, A.M.T. resided in Italy for
only eight weeks, from her birth in February 2015 until Monasky returned with her to the United
States in April 2015. R. 70 (Dist. Ct. Op. at 1, 8) (Page ID #1865, 1872). We concluded that the
eight-month-old twins in Ahmed were unable to have a “degree of settled purpose” in Italy due to
their age. Ahmed, 867 F.3d at 690. Consequently, A.M.T.—an eight-week-old newborn—must
also be too young to have developed a “degree of settled purpose” and acclimatized to Italy.
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Thus, following the analysis in Ahmed, because we cannot answer whether Italy is A.M.T.’s
habitual residence under the acclimatization standard, we must then turn to the shared-parentalintent
standard. Id. at 690. If the parties have no shared intent, then the child has no habitual
residence. See Delvoye v. Lee, 329 F.3d 330, 333 (3d Cir. 2003) (“[W]here the conflict [in a
marriage] is contemporaneous with the birth of the child, no habitual residence may ever come
The district court did consider the lack of shared intent to be relevant to its determination
of A.M.T.’s habitual residence. R. 70 (Dist. Ct. Op. at 21) (Page ID #1885). It did so, however,
without the guidance of our decision in Ahmed, and consequently its analysis does not comport
with the correct legal standard. The district court incorrectly focused on Monasky’s lack of
definitive plans to leave Italy immediately—she was waiting until A.M.T.’s passport was
issued—and whether or not Monasky and Taglieri had established a marital home in Italy.32 Id.
at 21–22 (Page ID #1885–86). What matters, however, under the shared-parental intent standard
is where the parents “intended the children to live.” Ahmed, 867 F.3d at 690; cf. Holder v.
Holder, 392 F.3d 1009, 1016–17 (9th Cir. 2004) (“In analyzing . . . [the parents’] intent, we do
not lose sight of the fundamental inquiry: the children’s habitual residence. Parental intent acts
as a surrogate for that of children who have not yet reached a stage in their development where
2The district court stated that: “Assuming that the Sixth Circuit would hold that the shared intent of the
parties is relevant in determining the habitual residence of an infant child, the court finds that such inquiry in this
case would begin with determining whether there is a marital home where the child has resided with his parents.”
R. 70 (Dist. Ct. Op. at 21) (Page ID #1885). The district court’s conclusion, however, that the parties had
established a marital home in Italy appears to have been not only the first inquiry in its analysis, but also the
overriding factor in its decision. Id. at 20–21 (Page ID #1885–86). But while the existence of a marital home may
be evidence of a shared-parental intent for the child to be raised in that locale, it is not dispositive. See Redmond v.
Redmond, 724 F.3d 729, 732 (7th Cir. 2013) (“The determination of habitual residence under the Hague Convention
is a practical, flexible, factual inquiry that accounts for all available relevant evidence and considers the individual
circumstances of each case.”); Holder v. Holder, 392 F.3d 1009, 1015 (9th Cir. 2004) (explaining that the Hague
Convention intended for the inquiry into habitual residence to be “flexible” and “fact-specific” (citing Paul
R. Beaumont & Peter E. McEleavy, The Hague Convention on International Child Abduction 89 (1999)). Consider,
for example, a hypothetical childless couple who have established a marital home in Country A. They both live and
work in Country A and it is their shared intent to continue maintaining their marital home there. After the wife
conceives a child, the couple forms a shared parental intent to raise the child in Country B, where the wife’s family
lives and can provide support. Following the birth of the child, the wife travels to Country B with the newborn to
raise the child there. The spouses plan, however, for the wife and child to return frequently to Country A for
vacations and for the wife to resume habitation in the marital home after the child is an adult. In this situation, the
existence of the marital home in Country A at the time of the child’s birth does not affect the shared parental intent
to raise the child in Country B.
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they are deemed capable of making autonomous decisions as to their residence.” (emphasis in
original)). Furthermore, because the petitioner-parent has the burden of proof, if the shared
intent is “either unclear or absent,” the petitioner necessarily has not met his or her burden.
Ahmed, 867 F.3d at 691.
Here, the district court’s findings of fact indicate that Taglieri has failed to satisfy his
burden of proof under the shared-parental-intent standard as elucidated in Ahmed. The district
court found that the parties’ marriage “during the time surrounding the birth of their daughter
was fraught with difficulty.” R. 70 (Dist. Ct. Op. at 17–18) (Page ID #1881–82). In the months
before and after A.M.T.’s birth, Taglieri subjected Monasky to physical and sexual abuse. Id. at
27–28 (Page ID #1891–92). During her pregnancy, Monasky began “applying for jobs in the
United States, inquiring about American health care and child care options, and looking for
American divorce lawyers.” Id. at 3–4 (Page ID #1867–68). She obtained “quotes from
international moving companies regarding a move from Italy to the United States,” id. at 5 (Page
ID #1869), and repeatedly indicated that she wanted to divorce Taglieri and return to the United
States with A.M.T. Id at 6–7 (Page ID #1870–71). During the bench trial, Taglieri vigorously
disputed the inferences that could be drawn from these actions and pointed to other conduct—
such as searching for an au pair for A.M.T. and scheduling medical appointments—that suggest
the parties’ shared intent was for Italy to be A.M.T.’s habitual residence. See, e.g., id. at 4, 6–7
(Page ID #1868, 1870–71). All of these findings suggest that Monasky’s and Taglieri’s plans for
A.M.T.’s upbringing did not “converge.” Ahmed, 867 F.3d at 691 (holding that a “couple’s
settled intent to live in the United Kingdom” prior to the wife’s pregnancy did not mean that the
couple had a shared parental intent to raise their children in that country, because the evidence
demonstrated that the couple had divergent plans regarding their twins’ residence starting from
when the children were in utero); see also Berezowsky v. Ojeda, 765 F.3d 456, 468–69 (5th Cir.
2014) (“A shared parental intent requires that the parents actually share or jointly develop the
intention. In other words, the parents must reach some sort of meeting of the minds regarding
their child’s habitual residence, so that they are making the decision together.”).
Because the district court did not have the benefit of our decision in Ahmed when
applying the shared-parental-intent standard, but rather had to hypothesize about the content of
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this standard, I would reverse and remand this case so that the district court can conduct its
factfinding utilizing the correct legal analysis as articulated in Ahmed. See Brumley v. Albert E.
Brumley & Sons, Inc., 727 F.3d 574, 577 (6th Cir. 2013) (“Reversal is appropriate when the trial
court applies the incorrect legal standard, misapplies the correct legal standard, or relies upon
clearly erroneous findings of fact.” (internal quotation marks omitted)); Siding & Insulation Co.
v. Alco Vending, Inc., 822 F.3d 886, 901 (6th Cir. 2016) (“[A] remand is required for the district
court to apply the correct legal standard.”).
This is a deeply troubling case, as Hague Convention cases often are. And I must
respectfully disagree with my colleagues’ failure to follow binding Circuit precedent. This is “a
simple case,” Maj. Op. at 14, because our decision in Ahmed compels the outcome in this case.
Our acclimatization standard is sufficient to determine the habitual residence of most children,
and when it is not, we must then use the settled-parental-intent standard. Where the child is too
young to have acclimatized to her community and surroundings, and where the parents do not
have a settled mutual intent, I would conclude that the child cannot have a habitual residence.
I would therefore reverse the judgment of the district court and remand so that the district court,
in accordance with the correct legal standard as explained in this opinion and Ahmed, can
determine whether Taglieri demonstrated by a preponderance of the evidence that a shared
parental intent for A.M.T. to reside habitually in Italy existed.